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I say let your friend make the mistake, if it is a mistake it is his mistake.
As far as the kid. Objectifying the mom is humorous in it's own way and is a problem with the mom. The mom might grow up and hopefully not objectify the kid.
My ex-wife taught our 2 year-old to say "I'm a hot babe" when asked if she was cute. Our kindergartener wears a size 10/12 which puts her at the low end of the middleschool kids. So my ex dresses her like a "Bratz" doll, which is hooker fashion for 13-14 year-olds. Objectifying the kids I do not tolerate well. Adults objectifying themselves is okay, but once you objectify a kid, it is not cool.
So I think the humor is "acceptable for some".
You don't have to like who your friend is dating, but let him make his own mistakes.
Good Luck
Toby
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There is nothing wrong with the exception that apparnently she does not read or listen to the news about all the work Myspace is doing with state and local police trying to get the sex offenders off their website..I am not about to say anything to my friend..I understand he is a big boy and he will figure this out for his self..most likely the hard way : (
I just wanted feedback from you great and wonderful guys! Thanks again.
Lisa
Go Mizzou!
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| Yeah, the myspace of her kid in that shirt is a bit over the top. I wouldn't have done it with my own kids, though I would have loved to have had the T-shirt when they couldn't read.
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I can understand that without the right sence of humor, you may find that "distasteful", but I'm losing what a humorous(to some) shirt on her child has to do with her being immature and neglectful, or him being foolish to be interested in this person? How is this neglectting the child to have a joke shirt on and a picture on the mothers myspace? I see alot of pictures of people's children on their SparkPage, what is the problem with this?
I would only advise not meddeling in others relationships unless they are TRUELY unhealthy(abuseive or criminal)to those involved.
These are two adults, with the ability to make their own decisions.
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| thanks guys..I guess I do not have a very good sense of humor..who knows..personally I think she is more clueless then him at this point..any mom to me, that broadcast their child on Myspace in that fashion is not only neglectful but childish and immature.
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Well as a guy who likes humor, I can see where that T-shirt would work. I never could get my wife to let me buy that for my kids, even though with four kids, there's serious proof that she likes it too. But, that's neither here nor there.
It would interesting to know if they have much more in common than the love of the roll in the hay. As long at they're building more than that I'm sure it'll go great. Just remember, your friend is a big boy. It's probably not his first BBQ. Just be the buddy and I'm sure He'll do fine here.
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I guess not knowing the girl or the guy, no one can truthfully answer that.
Going by that shirt, She may just have the same sence of humor as a friend of mine who has a onesy that says "I Love Boobies", which I really find funny, and have no problem with. People would expect something like that out of me when my wife and I have children. It's just my sence of humor, and if it's not hurting anyone, there's no problem.
Is he happy being with her? Does he understand the needs of the kid? Does the age difference bother either of them?
I hope you aren't thinking this way just because you want to be protective, a guy has to live his life and make his own choices/mistakes. That's how we learn.
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So my best friend, a guy..for the last 12 years has decided he is love with a 23 year old girl newly divorced with a 1 year old. This woman has also posted her child on Myspace with a T-shirt that says..This is proof my mommy likes to F---....is it me or is simply got his head somewhere else? He is 36 by the way.
Thanks !
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