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MIGHTYJEFF
8/28/08 11:18 A
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| I agree with the last post. games are stupid. If you think he likes you, and you think you like him, address the issue. It's better to get shot down at this point than some other time, if that's what you're worried about. Would you rather be strung along for a month, getting more and more anxious, and then get shot down?
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You won't know unless you ask. If the guy won't man up and talk to you then you have to do it...if you get shot down then oh well...don't let it ruin your day.
I understand it was blunt, but it is the truth...trying to interpret signals is slow and difficult...just go talk to the guy.
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| My advice is to take things slowly if you are serious about a relationship. Hold off on the sex for a while and get to know him. How does he treat you when you are around others? What does he talk to you about when your alone? Have you met his family or friends yet? Take your time, answer those questions and your answers should reveal what your asking. If you can answer simple questions positively then there may be a "Spark". The differential between Lust and Love is hard to spot.
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| There is no one way to tell if a guy is attracted to you. I mean does he pay more attention to what you say? Do you notice him showing up at more places you hang out at? Is he going beyond casual flirting and trying to catch your attention more? I mean there are more than a few ways for a guy to show he's interested. His intentions (If he's looking for you to be his woman or as an occasional partner is an entirely different thing and I can't tell that from what I read) you'll need to try and decipher. Just play it slow, gauge his response and go from there.
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| hey..how do you know if a guy (causal or together) is actually attracted to you and not just trying to get some even if the girl is unattractive?....straight forward question but im curious what guys would say on this matter....
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