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MAIDENINDIGO
4/7/08 8:58 A
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Hehe, thanks. It's weird that my goal isn't to be married necessarily, but to be IN a wedding. I think I'm better suited to be a bridesmaid. =P
Thanks for your replies, everyone. =)
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Absolutely not. nuts is me trying to reach my goal two months before the wedding when I had over a year to get myself in gear. I wish I had planned ahead. Then stress of weight would be one less thing on my mind at this trying time.
Hope you get there way before you are engaged! :)
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MANDIETERRIER
4/6/08 10:06 P
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I don't think you are nuts to want to get healthy so you can look great in your wedding gown.
I do think you are nuts to date a guy that is not marriage material, especially if that is your goal. Just sayin.
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| Definitely keep the wedding dreamin' in control, but it doesn't hurt to stay healthy and keep the weight off! I'm turning 26 this month and already gained 30 lbs. since college...sad sad sad. A couple of years ago I didn't see myself getting married but then this guy turned up and we got married within 10 months of dating. So ya never know I guess...again, use the fantasy as motivation to keep your figure but just don't expect things to happen!
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| It doesn't mean you're nuts, it probably just means you have a strong desire to get married. If the guy you're dating now isn't marriage material, then why date him? Not passing judgement just asking. I've definitely been there. Before I met my fiance I dated a few guys that I definitely couldn't see myself with even a few months down the road, but decided I'd go with it for the time being. I hated that, and I hated more that I was lonely enough to go through that. I put myself through a lot of crap I could have avoided. There will always be something that you desire and that may be out of reach for the time. For me it's kids and a house. I've got the fiance, but I'm ready for the next steps. Always something! Hope this helped :D
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MAIDENINDIGO
4/6/08 8:55 A
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Dear SparkPeople,
I'm only 22, the guy I'm dating right now isn't even husband material, yet part of the reason I want to get healthy and look better is so I can look rockin' in a wedding gown.
Does this mean I'm nutters? =)
Sincerely,
A product of Style Network culture
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