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AMANDALYN20
4/8/08 10:25 A
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| If it's not formal then I have to say no to the top hat. But maybe you could wear it after the wedding at the reception.
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MICHELLE53085
4/7/08 9:24 A
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| My fiance wanted top hats and canes as well. I didn't really like the idea at first but we are only doing this once. I am getting everything that I want, so he can have a few things as well. Plus, we will laugh really hard at how silly they all looked in a couple years.
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| My fiance plans for him and the groomsmen to wear top hats and carry canes for some part of the reception. I was initially pretty down on the idea which upset him so we compromised and I just made him promise he wouldn't do it for the introductions. It's all about the crowd. Ours is very fun so they'll probably enjoy it. And if not, I can say I had nothing to do with it!
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| You want I should have some words with her? LOL! I love a top hat! I tried to convince my fiancé to wear tails and spats and he said no :(
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SEXYLITTLEBRIDE
4/1/08 12:31 P
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| I'm going to have to agree with the previous poster. Fun for the class clown at prom, but not appropriate for an informal or semi-formal wedding. Good luck to you both.
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MRSFOOTE2B
3/30/08 8:18 P
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| If you were my fiance, I wouldn't let you wear it either--SORRY! My brother-in-law-to-be wore something like that to senior prom, and he pulled it off, but I would still say no. If your wedding is not formal, you would look completely out of place. I definitely have to go with "the ole ball and chain" on this one.
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| It is YOUR wedding too and your wishes should be respected. Go for it and wear what you want and makes you happy and feel good, she is! Bella
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| Since I am the "future wife" I have to defend myself and say that I have no problem letting him wear what he wants, although a top hat and cane are a bit much. But if it were something he wanted to wear then by all means do so. (Just keep in mind that it's not a formal wedding, it is going to be very casual yet still elegant.)
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MANDIETERRIER
3/27/08 10:16 P
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If your wedding is going to be ultra formal, then that attire is permissible. If it is semi-formal or casual then it is not. Sorry!
You could tell your bride, if she plans to wear a tiara. She can't do it unless she can produce a pedigree and prove she is a full blooded Royal Princess.
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KARLYNCANDOIT
3/27/08 3:46 P
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| Mabey some conpromises need to be made. I wanted my finance to wear a tux. He did not want to. I surly don't want him to be unconfertable. So I took him and bought him a nice outfit that we could both agree on. You should talk to her.
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| My future wife wont let me wear a top hat...whats up with that..i wanted the cane..white gloves and wing tips...you know do it up classy..but the ole ball in chain said no...man i was robbed...help
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