I understand exactly what you mean....maybe you could lose part of your weight and reevaluate the situation?
NEESH776 11/1/07 11:34 P
I personally think if you love him and want to spend the rest of your life with him, you shouldn't let a silly thing like weight delay your marriage. Plus, setting a date for your wedding is like, the absolute best motivating tool for losing weight. Once you have it set and begin the countdown, set up a workout schedule and goal weight for your wedding day. Treat yourself to am ipod or whatever non-food item that will help you achieve you goals. I set a date and started working out like crazy, especially after I picked out my dress : ) Every time I'm tired or don't feel like working out think about the wedding/honeymon coming up and THE dress.... I want to make the seamstress work as hard as possible taking in all those inches! Good luck with everything, hope this helps!
PATRICIAJANE 10/1/07 1:30 P
I can both see and not see your point. This is your wedding day (or will be) and you want to be the happiest you can be. So I can understand wanting to be comfortable.
However, as many people will say when talking about a baby, there is really no right or wrong time to get married. You need to get married when YOU want to. For me, I did not want to wait. sure, I could have waited until I was a size 6 again. But what if I never get there? what if I injure myself and gain more weight, what if I start to do everything right and lose a lot of weight? There is no telling exactly what will happen. so my personal belief is that waiting for one specific thing isn't always the best idea.
BUT, this is your wedding and you should do what YOU feel is best. Obviously you want to get your honey to agree with you, but if he's wonderful (which I'm sure he is), then he will want you to be happy and comfortable as well. So I don't think anyone can tell you what to do here.
Good luck with your decision. I think whatever you choose, you will be with the man of your dreams and so it will all be OK.
WHEREDIDIGO 10/1/07 12:40 P
I've been living with my loved one for over 2 years and we've talked about marriage but I absolutely won't do it until I've lost my weight. He understands and is accepting but am I being too selfish? I won't even take regular pictures right now, let alone wedding pictures! Give me input please!!!
