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| I say if you have enough invitations, then what will it hurt...they may end up changing their minds!
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| What aboutn on this scenario- do you still sound out invites if almost everyone you have invited has alredy booked your wedding (cruise)? Virtually everyone we invited either booked or for sure cannot go. What do you girls think. Do I still send them out because of etiquette?
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YOGABELLE
7/24/07 10:47 A
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| Thanks for all the responses. I probaly will send it out anyway in case they may want to see my gorgeous invitation. You all have valid points and my first reaction was not to send it. Thanks BTB's Bella
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| lol, for some reason I often find that once I have 'voiced' my opinion on a matter no-one else writes after me. what does that say about me? Hope we have helped with your problem. Let us know what you decide. Good luck X
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| My initial reaction would be not to send them an invite, because surely if they wanted to come to your wedding they wouldnt have gone out their way to tell you they wouldnt be coming after getting the save the date. People get plenty of notice once recieving this and if they decide they do want to come if their other plans fall through then I say tough luck. My wedding is not a fall back plan in case your original plan falls through. As for money difficulties, again they get plenty of notice, if they really wanted to come they have time to save. Im a horrible bride to be I know. X Hope this helps you, one way or another. X
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| Yes u have to send one. Its not a waste of postage b/c if the got a save the date then u should have already planned for them to get the invite. Sometimes guests change their mind. I also believe they are more likely to send a gift getting an invite as well. JMO. Good luck!
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| I would say yes too- send them an invite. They're probably expecting it after getting a save-the-date anyway! =)
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| Yes, you absolutely should send the invite, even if people say no. They will still like to get the information, and you never know, maybe things have changed.
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GOGREENGOWHITE
7/20/07 12:18 P
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| I believe that anyone that receives a save-the-date, should also receive an invite. Honestly, I would expect the number of people saying they couldn't make it after sending save-the-dates to be fairly low; therefore, the cost savings of not sending them invites to be low.
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LADYBOOP1970
7/20/07 12:16 P
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| I say yes, send one. Sometimes someone says they can't come because they know they have other things going on at the same time. But as time goes on, those plans may change or get cancelled. Sometimes people think they won't have the finances, but then suddenly money issues work themselves out. So you just never know. And, if they said they can't come, and they don't, you can always add a person from your B-list to replace them. JMHO
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| If after you send out the SAVE THE DATE card and someone says they cant come,do you send them an invitation anyways? Some have told me yes in case they want to see the invitation or may change their mind. I say it's a waste of postage. Please weigh in on this issues brides and grooms!
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