  |
|
FEISTYKITTY
3/20/06 7:48 P
|
|
|
|
I don't take well to pranks and practical jokes, personally. If the prank was wedding related, I'd probably lose it. Things like that can be mean, even if they're meant all in good fun.
Have you stepped back to take a look at specifically why you blew up? Did the prank really upset you, or did you really overreact to something silly?
|
|
DANCEGIRL1017
3/18/06 3:17 P
|
|
|
|
| Weddings are a big deal and cause soooo much stress on everyone. It's understandable that you got upset, but try talking to your in-law's and appologize. Then, after that's over with, talk to your man. I understand why he would be upset too. You just all need to calm down and take a breather.
|
|
|
|
Maybe take a break from wedding stuff to have some me time? I get stressed and upset easily when I have too much going on, so I spend time working out and knitting ( i love to knit and it relaxes me). Maybe you can do something you enjoy or take a long hot bath and read or something like that.
Maybe you could also explain to your in-laws that you didn't mean to expldoe, jsut that you are really stressed and it's making you a little upsetable. I think if you discuss it with your fiance', he will understand as well.
Good luck!
|
|
|
|
Hey, I've been blowing up more easily lately. My blow ups are related to my fiancee not putting his clothes in the hamper, not helping clean the apartment, his bad habits...basically the things that I'm going to have to deal with forever and ever Amen.
It's the stress of changing your life dramatically. A wedding is stressful, even if it is a "good" stress.
More or less, people just need to understand that we brides are a bit touchy around wedding time. I know I've had to explain my irrational blow ups to my fiancee and I think he's finally understanding.
|
|
A007BONDGIRL
3/16/06 5:45 A
|
|
|
|
| I'm not sure what it is, but something has me really spun up. My future mother-in-law and father-in-law played a prank on me today and instead of laughing it up, I blew up. I feel like a total jerk! It has caused a horrible fight between me and my fiance. He doesn't even want to talk to me. I need help getting my emotions under control!!
|
|
