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*hug* I understand...if she becomes too much of a problem, I'll get Tony Soprano to take care of it
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| Girls are and have always been hard to get along with, so when it comes to a wedding everything just gets amplified by 10..
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She is someone I have been friends with for 18 years. She is the kind of person that everything has to be about her, so she isn't liking the fact that this wedding isn't about her.
I knew in asking her to be in the wedding there would be a possiblity of this happening. In all honesty though, I was hoping she could be put that attitude on the back burner. Hopefully she will start to that now that we have had a talk about everything.
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At least you are one of those brides that actually care what their bridesmaid wear. I have seen the separate dresses and they look neat, not like the traditional bridal party. My friend is doing that for her weddin this month.
Sorry that she is being a P.I.T.A. *hugs*
How close of a friend is she that she has to make your wedding planning so stressful? If you ever need to vent, I am so here for you!
Take care!
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| I wish I had that problem. I have a bridesmaid who is a pain in the rear end! She has had the lack of communication. It took her two months to tell me she didn't like the dress. Of course, during that two months she said she loved it. Then the day before they are to buy the dress, she tells me. I couldn't believe it. Had she told me that the day we picked the dress would could have kept looking.... especially since all of them knew that if we couldn't find a style all of them like, I was fine with them all wearing separates.
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sorry to hear about this fight. It will work itself out. I had a fight with my girlfriend when I first got engaged because I didn't ask her to stand up since I wanted a small bridal party. She wouldnt talk to me for 6 months. Now she has called me and apologized for her behavior but still told me that she was hurt. I told her to get over it and move on with life.
Some women can be very manipulative and catty at some point in time. I have learned to pick my battles.
I hope things get cleared up with you and your bridesmaid.
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HILLARYMVRE
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Okay everyone, if your bridesmaids are causing you problems, you are not alone! I got in a huge fight with my bridesmaid over the phone last night. We were both crying and screaming and it wasn't pretty!But I think what ultimately caused this meltdown was a lack of communication. She was doing things that were bothering me and I was doing things that were bothering her but neither of us said anything. It all just boiled down to us both being bitchy to each other and not knowing why.
So all of you girls that have bridesmaids problems and are asking for advice, I advise to just get everything off your chest and talk to them about it. I'm seeing how that could have prevented a multitude of problems!
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