Wow I no expert, but may be you have a talk with you hd and tell him to talk to his dad. This kind of thing can't be hidden forever. I am truly sorry. It can't be easy dealing with menopause. I am 47 and still going strong if you know what I mean. I have heard horrior stories about the change of life. I am no fan of hot flashes, brittle bones. The family needs to talk. Why would your his dad have a problem with telling family??
ALRAD81 2/6/08 10:27 A
Hi Everyone,
It has been awhile since I have logged in. I have been going through a lot with my home life right now. We have my husband's dad living with us and he has been going through cancer (prostate)treatments. The real problem is that he will not tell his other childeren that he has cancer. It is about to drive me crazy. Going through menopause is making it really hard too. I do not sleep at nights so it has done a change on my whole body. He has put my husband and me in a bad way right now.
My husband is going to go work in another state and he wants me to take care of his dad. I do not know what to do about this. I have no power to do anything for him if he gets hurt or real sick.
