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GINGER1112
4/25/07 1:17 P
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| I had the same problem for awhile too - I had to determine what their interests were. I was lucky one like swimming and the other like softball - so we could concentrate on their individual interests. Hang in there - their individualism will come through and life will get better
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SNORQUEST
4/25/07 12:09 P
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| I try very hard to let them be themselves. But they are so depent on the other. If you take one to spend time with he is so worried about the other, that you almost have to go home. The doctor says it is because they are identical. But if they play in a group on is always a loner..It is weird.
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GINGER1112
4/24/07 9:56 P
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| One thing I alway did was make sure they each had their own idenity, likes and dislikes. When one wanted to play ball, it was ok it the other didn't. If you treat them like individuals - they tend not to argue, they go their own ways and they don't get into so much stuff. I tried to not make them have to spend a whole lot of time with each other - I wanted them to each have their own circle of friends. You may already know this, but this was one of the first things I did.
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| I would love any tricks you may have. They are so busy and into everything. And I would love to be friends. You can never have to many..
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GINGER1112
4/24/07 2:37 P
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I would like to be friends also. I have twins,(A boy and a girl)however mine are 32 yrs old. When they were born, I also had a daughter that was 17 months old, so I had 3 in diapers for awhile! I'm really not old! I'm 52 yrs old!! I had a wonderful time with my twins/kids - there are a "few tricks" for keeping your sanity - I'd be glad to share.
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| Yeah I know someone who the bf has a son the same age as her and it is like twins. They are amazing people my twins. And I would also love to be buddies for the journey...
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| I don't have twins - but have 3 children - 2 teenage boys and an 11 year old daughter - my BF has an 11 year old daughter - so sometimes it feels like twins - only I get to go home at the end of the day with only 1...would love to also be buddies on this journey toward feeling better about myself!
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| My twin boys are 5. And they are a handful also. I love that you have twins also. I don't know many people that have twins.Hope we can help keep each other on track..
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SANANTONIO1
4/21/07 5:46 A
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| I'll be your friend I have twin girls , 6 yrs. old and they are a hand full. I'm losing weight for my health and my family, too. Someone will always be able to help you @ spark!!
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| Trying to find members to help me beat the battle of the bulge..
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