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WANNABIKINI13
2/10/08 3:46 P
 
 
sit down with ur fam and bf and tell them that "i do not feel comfortable w/ my body so please help me" if thats the case
KRIISTTINA
2/8/08 4:17 P
 
 
dont give up! im tryin real hard not to
BYOURSELF_21
2/6/08 10:21 P
 
 
Just do what makes you feel happy. If your friends and family love you, they'll understand. If they don't, it's okay.
Even if you don't have time to exercise, you can still lose weight. Just cut down on sugary drinks, candy, and bread.
FEATHERA
2/6/08 7:29 P
 
 
You need to tell your family and friends that it's not their decision whether or not you are happy with your body. Just because your boyfriend thinks you're perfect, doesn't mean he doesn't need to help you. Isn't a boyfriend supposed to support you? If you sit him down and just tell him, "I know you think I'm perfect, but I think I need to work on it. I would love for you to help be so I can be happier." I'm sure he would understand. Same goes for your friends.

As far as your parents go, that sounds totally unwarranted. Have you told them about how you want to change your lifestyle? If they still won't budge, why don't you try and just move around more when they keep you busy. Like if they tell you to clean the house, turn it into cardio.
NINJAPIRATE42
2/6/08 5:59 P
 
 
my parents aren't very supportive and keep me way to busy to exercise and then complain that i'm fat. My boyfriend refuses to help me because he thinks i'm perfect just the way i am. My friends like my boyfriend yell at me everytime i say i'm fat and at 194 pounds i think i am... i just need some help and support from people.

Thank you
 

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