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| i have felt the same way, i was so self concencious about what others people thought and i was really shy, last year i became really good friends with a boy at my school everyone knew his name and he was just a class clown and i had no problem with him well over the summer he asked me out and its been over 6 months since we have been dating, it still kinda shocks my that out of everyone im the girl he likes but its definatly gotten me to not be as shy and relize that everyone else just wondered why i dint talk as much, not about how i look or anything that i just need to come out
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| Hey!!well idk if i'm replying right...but i know how u feel.i'm kinda in the situation where im the bridesmaid never the bride lol...well not literally but u no what i mean.i want guys to look at me 2 n think im cute too!! im new but its definately not weird!! good luck!~!~!~!
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ETERNALSNOWXX
12/4/07 2:22 A
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lol.. wow took me while to figure out how to reply but not sure if this really helps or not but, You know i feel exactly the same way. Like i feel really arkward when i'm walking anywhere cuz I feel ppl are staring at me and being like why is she so fat and i feel like totally horrible about myself. It's good that you haven't resorted to belemia cuz there is no reason why people should make someone feel so bad to do that. But what sometimes i try to do is like force myself to think like The worst they can do is think something bad about me and I say yeah they may make all these crakcs about me but I'm gonna prove them wrong and lose my weight and then we'll see who laughs last. Yeah.. i know its kinda lame but sometimes it can help just to think positively for a bit. Btw u probally wouldn't look weird walking up to a vending machine to buy something maybe if u tried talkingto it but, definately not to buy something or at least the last time i checked its not weird. =) 
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| You just need to relax, i mean i dont really know your situation because im from england and where i go to high school we dont really have clicks i just get on with everyone and am not scared to talk to anyone. But ive heard its really harsh in america. However i was quite shy when i was younger and to be honest people just took advantage of how nice i was. But know i just talk to anyone and dont care if they like me or not. The people who like you are the important ones, so trust me people dont bite, just talk to any one and if there not nice let them know. They wont say a thing again trust me. Hope ive help ya art hun biiiiiiiiiiiii
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COACH_DENISE
11/28/07 11:10 A
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Welcome to SparkTeens! I think that you might want to take a look at A Teen's Guide to Weight and Body Confidence. I'm sure that you will find a lot of resources and support here on the site!
Please let me know if there is something I can help with.
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KMBRENNAN
11/28/07 12:05 A
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Ever since middle school I have always felt that I was an out cast and never realy fit in so I would sit at home and complain, but last year being a junior in high school I started getting into the habbit of drinking 3 bottled waters ever day. I loved how healthy I was, walking around drinking as much water as I could. When everyone was buying sodas everday and spending 5 dollars a week on drinks or candy. I have the WORST sweet tooth but I am SO self concouse that I cant walk up to a vending machine and even buy a water or buy some pretzels for the munchies. I care SO much about what people think that it has tore me inside to the core. I have the most horrible confidence. I missed some school last year due to the fact that I felt like I couldnt walk down the halls that day because I felt too fat. I am the most horrible case of NO self confidence. Now, it hasnt gotten to the point where I am balemic but thats because I hate throwing up and I could not be anerexic due to my accide refluxe disease and it will eat the lineing of my stomache. Not too happy for my stomache and mayjor organs. Ha. But I guess im just getting at the point where you dont have to be that girl or gal, or be skiny, or be the all star athlete to have confidence in yourself. Even small goals, like working on eating healthier that day or working on school more. I mean small things like that could really help. I dont think this is going to make any sence to anyone on here but I just needed to vent.
:) Thanks!
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