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The Cost of 'Taking a Break' for the Holidays

By: , SparkPeople Blogger
11/29/2011 10:00 AM   :  56 comments   :  11,632 Views

I’m writing to you as a card-carrying SparkPeople member today!  I’m in my third year of maintenance so I’ve learned a few things about both losing and maintaining weight loss.  The year is drawing to a close and I think it’s appropriate now more than ever to discuss what it means to "take a break." 

The first few weeks of losing weight are exciting.  You are ready to get rid of the extra pounds that you carry and you are motivated.  Your reasons are personal and many of you may be motivated by extrinsic factors.  Counting calories, points, or whatever your system is easy and you are exercising with consistency.  The pounds are flying off (mostly in the form of water weight) and your clothes are starting to feel looser.  You may even start to get some compliments that provide even more fuel to keep going for yet another day.  But (I know you saw this coming), after some time that “new diet” feeling starts to wear off and you start to struggle.  Most people hit the first rough patch within the first two weeks.  It may take others a couple of months before they start to lose steam and start to wonder why they can’t go back to doing things the "old way." But, there comes a time when you will struggle to stay on track and the lure of returning to your old habits seems almost impossible to resist.  There is even some evidence that suggests your own body is sending out hormones to try to convince you to return to your old ways!

If you started your journey at SparkPeople, you are well-aware that what we are not proponents of diets.  Diets, as commonly defined, have a start date and an end date.  The end date of the diet signifies the day that you begin to return to your old habits thus also signifying the date you begin to regain the lost pounds.

But, let’s be realistic here.  It’s not possible to keep your motivation and willpower strong at all times.  There will be times, usually during stress, that you need to focus on more pressing matters.  There will be illnesses, job changes, relationship problems, financial problems, etc.  These stressors, in many cases, will erode your willpower and motivation and will make it more difficult to stay on track. 

What are your options during these difficult days? You can go with the “all or none” mentality and choose "all" to stay on track or you can choose "none" and go back to your old habits.  Alternately, you can choose a middle ground.  What I want to highlight today is the danger of choosing “none” and “taking a break” and to give some examples of what it’s like to choose somewhere in the middle. 

Giving up and “taking a break” is probably not the best choice to make.  I’ve heard many people say that they are “taking a break” and will resume living a healthy lifestyle after a certain date.  It’s not uncommon to hear someone say that they are going to start again “after the holidays.” 

So, let’s look the caloric toll and add up what might happen between November 1 and January 1 if you decide to “take a break.”

The numbers used here are simply estimates of calorie needs and expenditures.  Please do not get caught up on them because your body is not a calculator.  SparkPeople has wonderful trackers that enable you to figure out your personal caloric needs based on your level of activity.  However, I am using these generic numbers to illustrate the caloric differential of weight maintenance vs. losing vs. gaining.  The caloric differential of what your body needs vs. consumes is ultimately the key and the point of the following examples.

Our sample SparkPeople member is:
  • an extremely motivated obese female
  • actively losing 1-2 pounds a week
  • on 1,500-calorie per day plan
  • exercising five times per week burning 300 calories per session
Her (sedentary) basal metabolic rate: about 2,000 calories per day (the calories needed to maintain her current weight).  

Her deficit: about 5,000 calories per week
  • 500 a day from diet X 7 days = 3,500
  • 300 calories X 5 days a week from exercise = 1,500
  • That equals her about 1-2 pounds per week on average weight loss (3,500 calories=one pound lost but remember that your body is NOT a calculator)
Result:  If she continues her lifestyle change from November 1 through New Year’s she could lose about 12-13 pounds of fat and will be down a dress size for the new year!

Now, let's see what happens when she “takes a break” for the holidays. 
She is now:
  • eating an average of 2,500 calories per day (a surplus of 500 calories over her basal metabolic rate)
  • not exercising (she has lost the 1,500 calories per week she burned by working out) 
Result:  She is now gaining 1-2 pounds of fat per week as opposed to losing. 
January 1 rolls around and it is possible for her to have gained 12-13 pounds of fat. 

However, the scale might show she has gained about 15-20 pounds (she probably has 7-10 pounds of water along with the new stored fat).  That’s a 25 pound swing!
Happy New Year! 

Some people can do much worse than this.  I know I can--and I have!

What are some other potential scenarios?
She can:
  • keep her same exercise schedule (burning 300 calories 5 days a week)
  • still eat 2,500 calories per day. 
Result: She will save herself 3-4 pounds of weight gain. 


Alternatively, she can:
  • keep her exercise the same
  • eat an average of 2,000 calories a day
Result: Using this example, she will do more than maintain she will lose 3-4 pounds by the first of the year! She had her cake and ate it, too!

Why should you keep exercising even during break time?  As you can see, exercise can help you minimize the damage while you are getting back on track.  Exercise in and of itself relieves stress and can help you stay on track during those times when you feel like you need to take a break.  If you are feeling burned out by your current exercise routine, this is the perfect time to find a new way to stay active!

The bottom line:
  • Taking a break should not and does not have to be an all or none decision.  Minimizing any weight gain through exercise and practicing at least some moderation with your caloric intake will make a big difference and is worth the effort.  Understand that the “all or none” mentality does not work well in the real world, and there is no such thing as an "end date" for a true lifestyle change that leads to successful weight management. 

     
  • Resist the urge to take a break.  If you are tired or burned out, attempt to minimize the damage while you troubleshoot why you are having a hard time staying on plan.  Enlist the support of your family and/or join a SparkTeam!  My hope is that you take rethink the urge to throw caution to the wind and continue to work towards your goals year round.   
Pick yourself up after every fall and keep sparking everyone!
 
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Comments

  • DANAG49
    56
    Excellent blog! The result of my "break" was gaining 10 lbs and weighing more than I have ever weighed in my life. While I know that everyday will not be perfect,the basics always have to be there, fruit, veggies, water and movement. I am saving this blog...in case I think about taking a break again! - 1/11/2012   12:54:33 PM
  • 55
    OMG, are you KIDDING? I can (and do) easily gain 10 lbs per month. That's even more than the poor, hypothetical woman in your scenario. (I most recently did it this summer during July and August while I was feeling sorry for myself recovering from rotator cuff surgery and not being able to kayak.)

    And yeah, it has taken me 3 months of very hard work and dedication to get it back off again. Not. Worth. It.

    So, yeah. "taking a break" is simply not an option for me. Not happening. I LIKE this awesome, athletic body, and I'm going to do what is necessary to keep it.

    Besides, I have a kayaking trip coming up in January to Costa Rica, and if I want to be able to style those tropical class III and IV rapids, I need all the advantages I can get! LOL (a little extra motivation)

    As usual, a solid column. Keep it up, Birdie! :-D - 12/5/2011   5:08:20 PM
  • 54
    I agree so many of us are all or nothing types of people. Based on this shades of gray is much better. It so much easier to get back to "all" healthy living when we do not give up on all of new habits. As someone on this site had as a slogan:

    Eat Healthy
    Be Active
    Repeat Consistently - 12/3/2011   9:11:05 PM
  • IZZYBEBOP
    53
    I took a break this summer and at first actually lost weight. But by month three I couldn't get into any of my clothes. I didn't gain that much, but had lost almost all the muscle I'd worked so hard to get. I definitely do NOT recommend taking a break longer than a week. Also, it's taking me three months to get back into a routine. - 12/3/2011   10:20:14 AM
  • 52
    great post! makes perfect sense. i don't do as well over the holidays as i usually do, but i usually am able to keep from gaining. maintenance is success in my book!
    http://dragonfly180.wordpress.com
    - 12/3/2011   12:29:37 AM
  • 51
    thank u so much! i have been drifting off track but have kept exercising. this helps me to not beat myself up or throw in the towel. - 12/1/2011   1:24:41 PM
  • 50
    I never take time off from tracking, but I do make allowances. For instance, I knew on Thanksgiving Day I was going to splurge a little, but I made sure to track it all. Tracking still kept me reigned in and I only went about 100 calories over for the day. I still enjoyed myself and felt some freedom but I didn't go out of control. It was the only day I allowed myself to go over.

    I plan on doing the same thing on Christmas Eve because I know one day with only a small amount of "overage" won't ruin all my progress. It's good to push the boundaries just a little bit, but not enough to break through theme completely. - 12/1/2011   10:11:04 AM
  • 49
    I loved this article and how you broke it down numerically, even though it may not be exact. It really hit home. I sort of overindulged during Thanksgiving---2 out of the five days that I didn't have to work, but stayed on track with exercise and all. I am learning not to do the "all or nothing thing" and am praying I can do better during Christmas. Thanks! - 12/1/2011   9:39:58 AM
  • 48
    Excellent article. Thank you for spelling out the consequences of taking a break in black and white. Thanks for sharing with us! - 12/1/2011   12:38:29 AM
  • 7WORSHIPS
    47
    Wow, I really needed the words of advice in this blog. Thanks for shocking me back on track before I do further damage to my efforts.
    This was an awesome blog. - 11/30/2011   4:39:40 PM
  • 46
    I "took a break" last year-from Thanksgiving through the middle of January. I gained 20 pounds-the same 20lbs it had taken me all of the prior year to lose! I am still fighting to lose it!! No break for me this year, but I am not going to beat myself up either. I'm going into this holiday season with a relaxed and healthy attitude. I plan to at least maintain, not gain. - 11/30/2011   4:17:42 PM
  • 45
    Wow just what I needed to hear... so afraid of the holidays. Just got to keep moving. - 11/30/2011   3:04:25 PM
  • CANDYGETNFIT1
    44
    This is an AWESOME article! I'm not "taking a break" Oh, no. I am a yo-yo dieter in the past and I cannot go back to that lifestyle! My main thing is Portion Control with lots of water and lots of walking plus some strength training too! No, those days are over for me. It's stick with the plan no matter what!!!! - 11/30/2011   2:43:04 PM
  • VANANDEL
    43
    This is one of the best articles I've read. So many of us have this all or nothing attitude, but this blog shows there are many shades of gray which can minimize the damage and even give us a loss! Thank-you!!! - 11/30/2011   12:39:06 PM
  • 42
    I totally agree with this! Wonderful blog! Moderation is key.
    Besides, I'd never want to take a break from this lifestyle...it has become who I am! - 11/30/2011   12:11:22 PM
  • SMITHANN
    41
    I love this post!!! It helps re motivate me!!! - 11/30/2011   11:34:59 AM
  • 40
    Great POST! Perfect! Thanks! - 11/30/2011   8:44:00 AM
  • 39
    Great blog and thanks for the reminder. I have been successful over the past 2 years during the holidays maintaining my weight by continuing with normal exercise, nothing excessive, portion control, upping veggie/fruit intake, avoiding sweets with an exception of the particular ones I know I want to fit in, something special. I also like to include wine in there at times too, so careful balance and moderation are key. It helps to know I can indulge, give a little to get a little! - 11/29/2011   9:53:13 PM
  • 38
    This is exactly what I needed to hear (although it would have been nice to hear it at the beginning of November instead of the end of the month, LOL).
    Thanks for reminding me of the importance of making the "eating holidays" period a time to continue my healthy lifestyle. Looking for ways to stay active (like Turkey Trots, Reindeer Romps, and New Year Resolution Runs). - 11/29/2011   9:21:10 PM
  • 37
    Great blog. I have planned on sticking to my routine. I will allow a few goodies, but I will also increase my workouts. I have a good reason to keep going. - 11/29/2011   8:08:45 PM
  • 36
    I started my current weight loss journey the day after Christmas last year and am proud of being able to maintain my healthy routine for almost a year, (the longest EVER, and NO out and out binges!) and am hoping to lose 3 more lbs by the end of the year, bringing me to an even 40 lbs lost this year. I plan to stick with my routine as much as possible, but also to exercise extra and balance days when I might indulge (and I plan to, on a few occasions) with days where I eat at the lower end of my calorie scale. This plan has worked well for me so far this year when I have gone away, or had a special occasion. - 11/29/2011   7:56:25 PM
  • 35
    This is a great article and puts the holidays into perspective on how you can balance out eating and exercising! Thank you. - 11/29/2011   5:17:43 PM
  • RMCORNEJO
    34
    This is one of the best and most motivating blogs I have read. Only problem is sparkpeople wasn't able to save it even though it's an option.... - 11/29/2011   5:04:42 PM
  • 33
    What an eye opener! - 11/29/2011   5:03:44 PM
  • 32
    The best Christmas we had was spending four days at DISNEY WORLD and buying nothing else. Everyone had fun, including me, the Mom. - 11/29/2011   4:56:38 PM
  • 31
    An excellent, excellent, EXCELLENT peice! Especially enjoyed the SparkPerson example; brings it on home, out of the fuzzy realm of denial. My only regret is that I did not read this before my plateau frustrations (and there are an amazing number of them) tempted me to "take a break".

    I'm grateful I have this blog to pull up when (sadly not "if") temptation waddles into my thoughts.

    Thanks! - 11/29/2011   4:14:16 PM
  • 30
    I truly enjoyed the avg Spark person breakdown. It gives hope that if I stick to 1200 cal avg with diet and excercise I will loose weight. I´m looking for this year to be my year to habitually excercise and eat more veggies and fruits. As a 60+ year old good health is very important to me.Thanks again. - 11/29/2011   3:59:04 PM
  • 29
    It's very helpful to see it all laid out so clearly.

    I'd already planned to leave the good parts of my lifestyle in place. The main challenge for me is I don't eat at home as often during holidays, so I'll have to be vigilant and attentive to all the unaccustomed 'dangers.' - 11/29/2011   3:40:17 PM
  • 28
    Luckily, my family is coming to visit me for the holidays, so this keeps me in my comfort zone. I have already found a few healthy Spark Recipes to make for our holiday gatherings. I will be able to keep my gym routine going as well. I will enjoy foods in moderation and log everything so that I can keep a tally of my food intake ranges. Game on!!! - 11/29/2011   3:28:10 PM
  • 27
    What a wonderful blog! Thank you. I liked EMMANYC's comments. For me it is to remember I am in control of what goes in my mouth. I need to stay mindful and plan ahead. For Thanksgiving I attended an early morning Zumba Luau and had plenty of time to prepare the meal for my family. My break came from not filling in the food journal for a couple of days. I know that wasn't the best option, but I kept doing what I know is correct in eating and exercising and I did not beat myself up or add extra stress by dwelling on not recording my nutrition for a couple of days. When I stepped on the scale this morning I held steady and that was okay. Now it is back to my full regime and I hope to lose more before Christmas. Moving forward I will probablly take the same approach - plan ahead and say "no" when I have to. But most of all if I give myself a "break" it is going to be that I am kind to myself. - 11/29/2011   3:27:31 PM
  • 26
    Fantastic Info! Great motivator.... - 11/29/2011   3:25:33 PM
  • MONIWILL
    25
    i thank you. i needed this - 11/29/2011   2:48:30 PM
  • 24
    My wife and I are relatively new at this, we have been working on getting healthier for the past 11-12 weeks. Both of us needed ot lose some weight and work at getting healthier. During the Thanksgiving week, we really maintained our focus and planned on what meals would be, especially keeping in mind portion control, and more importantly kept up our exercise regimen. We we pleasantly surprised in that the meals were some of the tastiest ever, and we actually lost weight during this time. It takes work and focus, but can be done. - 11/29/2011   2:13:57 PM
  • SBNORMAL
    23
    I am not taking a break. I am using the last month to forge ahead and plan to enter 2012 a size a smaller. I have lost about 15 before spark, 10 with spark and trying to lose 15 pounds before the start of the New Year! - 11/29/2011   2:12:15 PM
  • 22
    I could easily be the person in the article! - 11/29/2011   1:46:54 PM
  • 21
    Great REminder. Thanks! - 11/29/2011   1:41:44 PM
  • 20
    Very timely, not just becuase of the holidays but because along with the holidays come additinoal obligations with family or friends, stress - usually financial - and just losing control of your routine. I find that keeping the exercise planned helps relieve the stress so I don't feel the pressure of taking a break. Oh not to say in the future I won't think of that, but when that happens I'll drag out this blog and read it all over again.

    Thanks so much for sharing and motivating me! - 11/29/2011   1:25:09 PM
  • 19
    If you have to "take a break" from the way you are living, your not doing something right. You have to live like you made goal or once you get to goal you will probably gain it all back again. SP is about changing your habits to live a healthy life style. If you need a break from that, you need to reevaluate your goals and your habits! - 11/29/2011   1:11:17 PM
  • EMMANYC
    18
    I'm in maintenance (or close to it - I'm working on losing one more pound to get to the lower end of my "happy weight" range). I don't plan to take a holiday break from exercising or eating healthily. In fact, I've signed up for a mid-February half marathon, and I'm working on a few December exercise challenges to help position me to shave some time off my race pace. And I also plan to be in a bathing suit in the Caribbean in the first week of January, so I'm motivated to continue fitting into my favourite swimsuit.

    I do expect to encounter some tempting meals and treats in the next month or so, and I expect to deal with them the way I deal with such things throughout the year. If the food is really special (e.g., husband's birthday dinner at one of New York City's best restaurants), I will order whatever I like and eat moderately. I have no qualms at all about turning down sweet treats prepared by friends and family (even my mother-in-law) if they aren't MY favourite sweet treats. I will eat healthy snacks throughout the day so that I'm not tempted to fall face first into a bag of tortilla chips. And I will do most of my Christmas shopping online, so that I a) save time for exercise, and b) avoid the stress (and junky food in food courts) of shopping in malls. - 11/29/2011   1:10:16 PM
  • 17
    Perfect!! I was so glad that I read this today!! I don't normally read the daily blogs, but as it was posted on Facebook, I was intrigued. I have recently lost about 70 pounds, and came into this holiday season with the death of my father on October 21. I have been battling to maintain, and have managed to with about a 3-4 pound swing. I have told everyone that I am going to maintain through the holidays, but this reaffirms that I must still work at it and make wise choices. Thanks!! - 11/29/2011   1:08:44 PM
  • BTHINWITHIN
    16
    Thank you! The realities of taking a break are not worth it. Thank you again! : ) - 11/29/2011   12:56:52 PM
  • 15
    How true! I believe everyone tends to believe they will stick-to-it during the Holidays. Yet, the phrase " Just one " ends up as many. Thanks greatly ! - 11/29/2011   12:55:14 PM
  • 14
    I needed to hear this today. Thank you!!!! - 11/29/2011   12:53:23 PM
  • 13
    I set up a challenge for myself and one of my teams to NOT gain weight between Halloween and New Years. It's not about being 'perfect' every day. It's about making choices. I found a nice article about not gaining weight during the holidays on Fit Bottomed Girls website.
    Basic gist of the article:
    1. Think before you drink
    2. Healthy alternatives
    3. Watch your portions
    4. Select Real Fresh Foods
    5. Revamp stuffing
    6. Space out helpings
    7. Move it!! - 11/29/2011   12:45:07 PM
  • 12
    AMEN!!! That was exactly what I needed to hear today! We CAN have our cake and eat it too! Just not TOO much cake and not without a little exercise along the way....... - 11/29/2011   12:36:10 PM
  • 11
    My plan is to limit the times I "splurge," keep tracking my food, and maintain my exercise schedule. - 11/29/2011   12:28:30 PM
  • 10
    This was great! Something I do to help me stay on track during the holidays, is stay clear of the foods that appear at the holiday table every. single. year. Sure they were delicious at first, but if you really think about it, a lot of them lose their charm after having had them annually forever and you're only eating them because of tradition! - 11/29/2011   11:55:20 AM
  • 9
    great info. i always give myself a free ride this time of the year. but a few days ago i had decided that this year i was setting a goal that i lose 10 pounds by the first of the year. this came at the right time for me. - 11/29/2011   11:45:38 AM
  • 8
    Fantastic outline & so good for us all to keep in mind...it's all about choices. - 11/29/2011   11:39:45 AM
  • 7
    Thank you for this in-depth article! For Thanksgiving I actually exercised a little harder than usual, but for my holiday trip later in December, this article will be especially useful. - 11/29/2011   11:28:46 AM

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