Poll: Why Do You Really Want to Lose Weight?
Getting fit. Eating better. Losing weight. All the hard work and sacrifice that goes into those three "little" things can be overwhelming. It can be difficult to stick with these habits for the long haul. While appearance alone is motivation enough for some, it's not a motivator for me. I need something bigger: a compelling reason to stick with it, and a higher motivator. If I didn't have a "big picture" goal, the TV and tub of ice cream would win way too often.
Do you have a higher calling? A call to action? A reason behind your goals to lose weight and get healthier? Or do you just have goals for no good reason?
Last weekend, I checked something off my bucket list. With 11 other teammates (most of whom were other SparkPeople members!), I completed the 200-mile Hood to Coast relay in Oregon, a feat that took us over 31 hours to complete. With little to no sleep for over 48 hours, I ran between 5 and 6.5 miles three times in that short window (as did my teammates). Now if torturing yourself and making your body hate you sounds like fun, then I'd call this fun (haha). I didn't do it for fun. I did it for the adventure—and simply to prove to myself that I could do it. Completing Hood to Coast was an experience that I wanted to have, one that took planning, training, budgeting, and a lot of willpower to keep going when my body wanted to stop. I did it, and I'm proud of myself. It's an experience that I'll never forget, from the people I met to the views of the countryside as I ran, to the overwhelming emotion and feeling of accomplishment that rushed through me as I approached the finish line. As I reflect with the event still fresh in my mind, it makes me feel grateful and appreciative of my healthy, fit body. Without consistent exercise and healthy habits, I would never have an experience like this. Much like my hike to the bottom of the Grand Canyon last year, it made me reflect on my choices and my lifestyle.
Exercising, eating right and managing my weight—these are not the real goals. Sure, they are "goals" and they take planning and determination to sustain over the long haul. But the REAL goal is something bigger. The real goal is exercising, eating right and managing my weight so that I can… [FILL IN THE BLANK]. These are simply the means to achieving greater things in life, from crazy sleepless running relays to hiking one of the most beautiful places in the world, to even more basic things like getting around easily, traveling, riding a rollercoaster, being able to run around and play with my future kids (and even-more-future) grandkids. Exercising, eating right and managing my weight are not the real goal—they are the tools to living the life I want—one that is fun and long and happy and full of adventures and memories that I'll never forget. These are the "big picture" goals—the real reasons I do what I do.
When you keep your big picture goals in mind, it makes getting off the couch and prioritizing your healthy habits that much easier. Write them down. Think about them. Remember them. Next time you don't feel like exercising, remind yourself "I exercise so that I can [reach your big picture goal]." When you feel your willpower to make healthy choices lagging, say, "I'm doing this so that I can [reach this bigger goal]." That is why you do what you do—and that is what will get you through.
What are some of your "big picture" goals? How do you keep them in mind?
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Do you have a higher calling? A call to action? A reason behind your goals to lose weight and get healthier? Or do you just have goals for no good reason?
Last weekend, I checked something off my bucket list. With 11 other teammates (most of whom were other SparkPeople members!), I completed the 200-mile Hood to Coast relay in Oregon, a feat that took us over 31 hours to complete. With little to no sleep for over 48 hours, I ran between 5 and 6.5 miles three times in that short window (as did my teammates). Now if torturing yourself and making your body hate you sounds like fun, then I'd call this fun (haha). I didn't do it for fun. I did it for the adventure—and simply to prove to myself that I could do it. Completing Hood to Coast was an experience that I wanted to have, one that took planning, training, budgeting, and a lot of willpower to keep going when my body wanted to stop. I did it, and I'm proud of myself. It's an experience that I'll never forget, from the people I met to the views of the countryside as I ran, to the overwhelming emotion and feeling of accomplishment that rushed through me as I approached the finish line. As I reflect with the event still fresh in my mind, it makes me feel grateful and appreciative of my healthy, fit body. Without consistent exercise and healthy habits, I would never have an experience like this. Much like my hike to the bottom of the Grand Canyon last year, it made me reflect on my choices and my lifestyle.
Exercising, eating right and managing my weight—these are not the real goals. Sure, they are "goals" and they take planning and determination to sustain over the long haul. But the REAL goal is something bigger. The real goal is exercising, eating right and managing my weight so that I can… [FILL IN THE BLANK]. These are simply the means to achieving greater things in life, from crazy sleepless running relays to hiking one of the most beautiful places in the world, to even more basic things like getting around easily, traveling, riding a rollercoaster, being able to run around and play with my future kids (and even-more-future) grandkids. Exercising, eating right and managing my weight are not the real goal—they are the tools to living the life I want—one that is fun and long and happy and full of adventures and memories that I'll never forget. These are the "big picture" goals—the real reasons I do what I do.
When you keep your big picture goals in mind, it makes getting off the couch and prioritizing your healthy habits that much easier. Write them down. Think about them. Remember them. Next time you don't feel like exercising, remind yourself "I exercise so that I can [reach your big picture goal]." When you feel your willpower to make healthy choices lagging, say, "I'm doing this so that I can [reach this bigger goal]." That is why you do what you do—and that is what will get you through.
What are some of your "big picture" goals? How do you keep them in mind?
Follow @thecoachnicole
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Comments
Two items: I've run the HTC twice back in the 80's. Bucket lists weren't common then, but it was a race I wanted to run. It sounds like your experiences were as memorable as mine: the camaraderie with your teammates, the excitement at the exchanges, the personal reflection as you run through Portland in the middle of the night, and the fun at the race's conclusion on the Oregon coast.
Second item: I like your idea of fitness as a means "so that I can… [FILL IN THE BLANK]." That idea has sustained my exercise and diet efforts during the past 4 years. I've created and am working on my bucket list, one of which is to try ocean kayaking. Like many others here, being healthy is also a goal.
thanks! - 8/4/2012 10:26:01 PM
I keep my goals in check by making sure that my family knows they are loved and give them all hugs and kisses everyday. Makes my heart swell every time and keeps me on the right track to a wonderful, long, fulfilled life.
Sorry this was so sappy :) - 4/27/2012 10:47:20 AM
I got stuck in my weight loss because I think my "reasons" weren't cutting it anymore -- I looked and felt good, even though I was still 10 pounds from my goal. I could run, but I still wasn't quite "there".
I think our goals change as we go. Mine are to be healthy, to feel and look good -- and (oh yeah) to be comfortable in my bathing suit when I go on vacation this winter!
Great to meet ya and congrats on the fitness award! - 10/4/2011 6:19:41 AM
Long term: I want to be active so I'll have a sunny disposition. I have a very stressful life. Exercise helps to regulate mood with endorphins, adrenaline and serotonin so that I handle stress better. Sure, I want to be active so I'll live longer. More importantly, I want to enjoy getting there. - 9/22/2011 11:09:15 AM
I don't need to be a size 4, run a marathon, break records, see my ribs sticking out, or fit into society's view of weight loss! I do however want to be more active, have fun, and be able to hike trails in the mountains. Not to reach a major peak, simply to enjoy the beautiful mtn trails and reach the top of chimney Rock. This will be an amazing photo op! - 9/5/2011 8:00:01 PM
- 9/4/2011 7:52:52 PM
My real goal is exercising, eating right and managing my weight so that I can join a hiking group without all the fears, apprehensions and self-consciousness that have stopped me so far.
This is one "real goal" - there are lots of others! - 9/4/2011 2:05:10 AM
You asked - Hope it's not TMI (too much information). LOL. - 9/4/2011 1:25:09 AM
I plan to run the Buffalo Turkey Trot (8K) when I'm 80. - 9/2/2011 4:24:39 PM
Most of all, I want to be able to look at myself and be happy and content that i am living the best life possible.I can only do this if I'm healthy. - 9/2/2011 3:54:44 PM
How do I keep my reasons for this at the top of mind? I have them written down and I read them every morning. I made copies which I carry in my purse and have at work so if I feel weak, I can pull out the list and remember what I'm trying to do.
This wasn't ally my idea. I'm using the Beck Diet Solution workbook which let's me use whatever diet and exercise program I want to. It focuses on behavior modification exercises which I complete each day. It doesn't take much time. Some exercises are repeated day after day after day so they become part of my daily landscape.
Thanks for sharing a great blog.
Sparky - 9/2/2011 2:51:12 PM
Lucky you - Oregon is so beautiful... - 9/2/2011 2:49:02 PM
I made a specific goal a few years back that I want to snowboard with my grandchildren. I also don't want my slim wife to have to drag around a fat husband. I want to look in the mirror and like what I see (even when I'm slimmer that will still take some imagination). I want to be able to do things and feel like doing them. I want to be a good steward of the body I've been given.
There are so many good reasons to get fit, aren't there? - 9/2/2011 8:06:02 AM
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