Living the Lifestyle during the Holidays
It's that time of year again. Staying on track during the holidays is challenging, but it can be done. I’m entering my fifth holiday season as a SparkPeople member, and I’m looking forward to conquering it! There will be many articles coming out in the next few weeks about avoiding holiday weight gain.
Instead of concentrating on avoiding holiday weight gain, my goal is to maintain consistency with my diet and exercise program throughout the holiday season. I do plan to splurge on special occasions. The problem with maintaining consistency is that there are so many special occasions between now and New Year's Day!
Why is weight gain during the holidays a yearly topic? Weight gain during the holidays is an important contributor to the weight gain "creep"--that is, the extra pounds you gradually and slowly add without noticing. Just about everyone thinks that you have a license to indulge during this time of the year!
When I started my lifestyle change in 2007, I started out sprinting. I was tired of being morbidly obese and I breezed through the 2007 holiday season with ease. There were no false starts.
I was on a mission and my mission was to reach my goal weight. That’s not to say I didn't hit a few bumps: I binged on Halloween candy that year, declaring it to be a "cheat day," and I pretty much did the same on Thanksgiving. Otherwise, it was smooth sailing.
I started out at 292 pounds on July 23, 2007, and by Thanksgiving 2007 I was in the 230s. But, I was motivated and nothing was going to stand in the way of my goal.
Unfortunately, the new penny feeling of a "diet" wears off. I knew that I was trying to change my life, but I had started to tire of trying to be perfect. Fortunately, I had already become very attached to SparkPeople and its principles and was attempting to focus on the long haul, not the quick fix.
My weight loss was pretty steady during that phase. By the 2008 holiday season, I was a sleek 158 pounds, but I was already a little battered and bruised. I had faced and beaten burnout a few times already. I had conquered many hard questions about my motivations and I had felt the pain of defeat. Still, I got back up and dusted off my knees after every fall. Despite those battle wounds, I held steady through the holidays and got down to 150 pounds in early January.
The next holiday seasons didn’t go as well as the first two. I fought hard battles during the 2009 and 2010 seasons. I gained for the first time during the 2009 season and had to go back to the basics after New Year's to get back to my maintenance weight. I pretty much did the same during the 2010 holiday season. So, is this a pattern? Am I destined to be a yearly victim of the holiday weight-gain tradition?
My holiday season starts with Halloween and ends at the New Year. That is when I have traditionally face the greatest struggle, and there are pretty good reasons for that struggle. Treats on every corner, parties, days off, schedule changes, vacations, mass media telling you that you have to try this new holiday drink, etc. Let’s not forget the cold weather and the fact that you get to hide some of your extra pounds behind sweaters and other winter fashions.
As you can see I’m not an expert at getting through the holidays, but I have rode them out and made it to the other side. I’m at a bit of a disadvantage this year because I’m going into the holiday season a little on my higher side, but I’m planning on success this year! Here’s my plan:
Do you aim to lose or maintain during the holiday season? Traditionally, do you give up or stay strong during the winter holidays?
Instead of concentrating on avoiding holiday weight gain, my goal is to maintain consistency with my diet and exercise program throughout the holiday season. I do plan to splurge on special occasions. The problem with maintaining consistency is that there are so many special occasions between now and New Year's Day!
Why is weight gain during the holidays a yearly topic? Weight gain during the holidays is an important contributor to the weight gain "creep"--that is, the extra pounds you gradually and slowly add without noticing. Just about everyone thinks that you have a license to indulge during this time of the year!
When I started my lifestyle change in 2007, I started out sprinting. I was tired of being morbidly obese and I breezed through the 2007 holiday season with ease. There were no false starts.
I was on a mission and my mission was to reach my goal weight. That’s not to say I didn't hit a few bumps: I binged on Halloween candy that year, declaring it to be a "cheat day," and I pretty much did the same on Thanksgiving. Otherwise, it was smooth sailing.
I started out at 292 pounds on July 23, 2007, and by Thanksgiving 2007 I was in the 230s. But, I was motivated and nothing was going to stand in the way of my goal.
Unfortunately, the new penny feeling of a "diet" wears off. I knew that I was trying to change my life, but I had started to tire of trying to be perfect. Fortunately, I had already become very attached to SparkPeople and its principles and was attempting to focus on the long haul, not the quick fix.
My weight loss was pretty steady during that phase. By the 2008 holiday season, I was a sleek 158 pounds, but I was already a little battered and bruised. I had faced and beaten burnout a few times already. I had conquered many hard questions about my motivations and I had felt the pain of defeat. Still, I got back up and dusted off my knees after every fall. Despite those battle wounds, I held steady through the holidays and got down to 150 pounds in early January.
The next holiday seasons didn’t go as well as the first two. I fought hard battles during the 2009 and 2010 seasons. I gained for the first time during the 2009 season and had to go back to the basics after New Year's to get back to my maintenance weight. I pretty much did the same during the 2010 holiday season. So, is this a pattern? Am I destined to be a yearly victim of the holiday weight-gain tradition?
My holiday season starts with Halloween and ends at the New Year. That is when I have traditionally face the greatest struggle, and there are pretty good reasons for that struggle. Treats on every corner, parties, days off, schedule changes, vacations, mass media telling you that you have to try this new holiday drink, etc. Let’s not forget the cold weather and the fact that you get to hide some of your extra pounds behind sweaters and other winter fashions.
As you can see I’m not an expert at getting through the holidays, but I have rode them out and made it to the other side. I’m at a bit of a disadvantage this year because I’m going into the holiday season a little on my higher side, but I’m planning on success this year! Here’s my plan:
- Keep exercise consistent. This is extremely important. If you’ve been burning a couple of thousand calories per week through exercise and you drop it down to a couple of hundred during the holiday months, you are going to gain weight from that change alone! Throw some extra treat calories on top and you have a recipe for weight gain. The workout endorphins are helpful for dealing with holiday stress as well. So, I’m exercising consistently this holiday season! Are you?
- Just say no. The candy in the dishes on the desk, the newest holiday coffee drink, the extra samples in the grocery store. Just say no to it all. I vote for attending the holiday office parties but not partaking in any of the treats. There are way too many special occasions during this time of year to spend your calorie bucks at occasions that are not all that special for you. Pick the events that you want to splurge on a little and keep to the plan. For me, it’s all about family.
They own my splurges and I’m not wasting them on anything else! Remember there is no such thing as free dessert. You will pay for it in the form of extra pounds and ill-fitting clothes. Save it up for your special occasions!
- Tighten the reins. Make sure you track even more diligently during the holidays. You are going to need the extra wiggle room to absorb the special treats! Be honest--you don’t have a lot of room to play with when you're adding in extra sweets.
- Pick yourself up after every fall. The all-or-none trap is especially deep during this time of year. It is not all over if you slip. Get back up quickly, I promise you will minimize some of your post-New Year's pain!
- Get support. Find like-minded people who are ready to brave the holidays with you. You will need a support system to help you get through the lure of joining in on the holiday mindless eating. Join a SparkTeam today!
Do you aim to lose or maintain during the holiday season? Traditionally, do you give up or stay strong during the winter holidays?
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Comments
Once we realize it we CAN make better choices even in the holidays. Take care
of yourselves and carry on to 2012. WE CAN DO THIS!!! - 12/12/2011 12:32:17 AM
It's one reason I'm actually running weight maintenance and weight loss challenges through the season. Because for some of us that little extra bit of competition can help with making better choices.
I'm nearly back at goal weight, myself, having started the latest challenge at Halloween and going through Thanksgiving (the week of which I actually lost two pounds, but mostly because my cat of 19 years died and I didn't feel like eating. Thanks, kitty. :-/ )
Solid column, as usual. Nice job! - 12/5/2011 5:00:14 PM
Happy Holidays! - 12/4/2011 10:25:45 AM
HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO ALL AND ESPECIALLY TO DR. BIRDIE AND HER FAMILY!!! - 11/29/2011 6:56:39 PM
rumbamel - 11/29/2011 5:37:24 PM
This is my second year as a Sparker and a recovering food addict who has lost 196 lbs in 23 months.
Last year I was so motivated to be under 200 by the new year, there wasn't any food that could possible derail me.
This year I am almost where I want to be in weight. But it's harder to stay as focused. I work out a lot and sometimes that gives me the false sense that I can indulge more. Wrong way to think. I am working on maintaining my present weight by eating only small bites of food that I really want. Not wasting calories on any junk food. Not letting the scales show more than 2 lbs difference. I weigh daily, log weight weekly.
I love my regained size from years ago, have no intention of ever buying larger clothes. I love the fact that I can ski and jog at my age. Food is only for engery and keeping my body healthy. For happiness and pleasure there is so much more out there that I wish to experience.
Just remember one slip up does not mean failure and a reason to spend the holidays giving in with the thought that you're start again at the New Year.
Let's start the New Year as successful Sparkers. No weight gain!!!!
Wish everyone the best. - 11/29/2011 11:57:42 AM
I know I'll have few treats during this season, and I know what I want them to be when I allow it. There is always something specific that I want, so I'm not really tempted with the stuff around me, because I would rather have that scoop of ice cream on Friday, or Key Lime Pie on Thanksgiving. I bring my special treat along, so I know I'll have something to enjoy, and I'm not tempted by the other desserts. Also, it's always gone when I leave, so I can't bring any home. Last year I craved chocolate chip cookies. So I baked some for Christmas dessert. It turned out to be a hit, and they disappeared as appetizers. I had my fix, and there wasn't another opportunity. Our family has the same standard everything year after year after year after year. I don't care for any of it, so this works well for me. I have to say no thank you, 100 times, but I leave it at that. I don't try to explain anymore because nothing works. A simple no thank you, is short, sweet, and the end! For at least 10 min anyway. After all my progress, everyone still wants me to eat myself silly. The better you do, the more they want to feed you. Sabotage!
Otherwise, moderation is key. If you have to sample, just use a small spoonful. Even if you sample 10 items/10 reg spoonfulls, you've overeaten. Keep them bite size, eat slowly, maintain exercise. - 11/22/2011 1:46:25 PM
Thanks again for your great reminders-- - 11/22/2011 6:47:45 AM
Birdie has given GREAT GREAT tips and I apply each and every one of them. I especially like that 'pick your event' one.
I have been maintaining now for almost a year. Last Christmas I was right at the end of my 6 year weight loss journey after being obese all of my life and breezed through it (well, I do think I gained a couple of pounds, but that was gone within a few weeks).
I AM ADDICTED TO FOOD and know it but have found a way to deal with my addiction so that temptations are no problem. I find ways to work around everything.
If I know I am going to have a big dinner, I do extra work at the gym, etc. Its not even an issue. I wish I could explain how I got here (to this frame of mind), but its just an inner peace with myself now that I am never going to lose by becoming the person that I was...NEVER.
At my biggest I was 330 pounds. I am now maintaining at 150.
I love every day of my healthy life.
I love how I feel when I wake up in the morning.
I love how I feel when I go to bed at night.
I REALLY love all the yummy, delicious food that comes with the holidays and will eat it all!!! but in limits and then I will be putting an extra effort at the gym, etc to make sure I don't put any weight on.
The feeling I have for myself now over powers ANY need to put that extra piece of cake in my mouth.
Its willpower and planning. Its as easy as that, are you strong enough to handle it? I think if I can, ANYONE CAN!
P.S.
Congratulations to all of you who have and are still losing and your accomplishments! I know what the struggle is and theres nothing more rewarding! - 11/22/2011 5:24:56 AM
For me, getting everything into the recipe builder to see exactly what those treats are "costing" is enough for me to say, "No thanks, I'm fine!" - 11/21/2011 4:37:25 PM
I've found it easier than anticipated to walk away from the "treats" at the office. When you have some idea of the calories involved they lose a LOT of their appeal. Even more so since so many of them are store-bought these days and I know they don't taste as good as they look!
Happy Thanksgiving to all of us and especially Dr. Birdie and her family! - 11/21/2011 2:27:54 PM
This year is going much better so far. I've had my ups and downs, but I'm trying to remember that just because I'm going to splurge on a handful of days doesn't mean I have to splurge on every day! - 11/21/2011 2:21:06 PM
My biggest enemy is thinking that I need to eat all of the treats during this 6 week holiday season. I have tried to re-educate myself to see that it is just 3 special days for me- Thanksgiving Day, Christmas Eve (big extended family gathering) and Christmas Day. That's it. Not every single day from now until the New Year.
- 11/21/2011 10:50:12 AM
Thanksgiving is not a problem as **I** am doing the cooking, so have plenty of healthy food choices. I will definitely track my nutrition and measure/weigh my food (I initially thought that this was a real pain to do for the rest of my life! Well, I soon realized that the ALTERNATIVES -- the health problems I had when overweight -- are MORE of a pain. So, track I will. Exercise . . . my routine may be a little different on those special holidays, but will NOT be skipped. That's been a hard one for me -- the "all or nothing @ all" mentality. But that's where it's at, for sure!
And being "older" has helped me realize too that imperfection is not all bad. Just figure out the lesson(s) to be learned from mistakes.
Happy holidays to you and thanks for sharing your experience. - 11/21/2011 10:17:09 AM
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