How I Found My Passion
I was never one of those kids who knew what I wanted to be when I grew up. Even in college when it was time to pick a major, I picked business because it seemed like I could do a lot with it. I really didn't like business more or less than anything else. But my parents encouraged me to finish college and then I could figure out what I wanted to do with my life.
I spent my first few years out of college in corporate America. I worked for a great company, my job was challenging and I made great money. Not bad for a young woman who had just turned 22. But I knew almost immediately that it wasn't for me. I wasn't okay with working all day to help a company that already had a lot of money make more.
I remember the day when I decided I needed to make a change. I was at the mall and I saw an elderly couple sitting on a bench. My first thought was "I'm so jealous that they don't have to work anymore." It was then that I knew my current situation wasn't working and it was time to figure out what my true passion in life really was. I ended up deciding to go back to graduate school and get a degree in Health Education. It was a very scary decision, but something I've never regretted.
When I told my co-workers that I was leaving, the responses were interesting. Some people told me I was foolish- I'd never have a job like this again, making this kind of money. Others said they admired my decision, and if they didn't have a family to support and house payments to make, they might have tried to do the same thing.
After graduate school, I moved to Memphis with my husband and got a job with the YMCA. It was a great experience for a number of reasons, and lasted a few years until my husband was transferred and we moved home. An interesting turn of events lead me to SparkPeople, which was a tiny office with just a handful of employees at the time. Again, some people told me I was crazy for taking a job with a small company that might not last. But others said it was such a unique experience and I should take advantage of the opportunity. Every day I'm thankful I did.
After my first child was born I started working part-time. It's not easy- my day starts at 5:30 every morning so that I can get work done before my kids get up. Then I juggle my kids and work throughout the day so that I can be a good mom and good employee at the same time. I realize a lot of working moms have to juggle much more than I do, so I consider myself lucky.
If I wanted to stop working, my family could find a way to make it work. But I get so much satisfaction from helping people every day on the site. Any time someone tells me that my advice or suggestions helped them make progress, I'm thrilled. So I honestly believe that I've found the career that I'm passionate about, even if I took an interesting path to get there.
What about you? Have you found your passion- whether it's your career, family, volunteering or other activities? If not, what's stopping you?
I spent my first few years out of college in corporate America. I worked for a great company, my job was challenging and I made great money. Not bad for a young woman who had just turned 22. But I knew almost immediately that it wasn't for me. I wasn't okay with working all day to help a company that already had a lot of money make more.
I remember the day when I decided I needed to make a change. I was at the mall and I saw an elderly couple sitting on a bench. My first thought was "I'm so jealous that they don't have to work anymore." It was then that I knew my current situation wasn't working and it was time to figure out what my true passion in life really was. I ended up deciding to go back to graduate school and get a degree in Health Education. It was a very scary decision, but something I've never regretted.
When I told my co-workers that I was leaving, the responses were interesting. Some people told me I was foolish- I'd never have a job like this again, making this kind of money. Others said they admired my decision, and if they didn't have a family to support and house payments to make, they might have tried to do the same thing.
After graduate school, I moved to Memphis with my husband and got a job with the YMCA. It was a great experience for a number of reasons, and lasted a few years until my husband was transferred and we moved home. An interesting turn of events lead me to SparkPeople, which was a tiny office with just a handful of employees at the time. Again, some people told me I was crazy for taking a job with a small company that might not last. But others said it was such a unique experience and I should take advantage of the opportunity. Every day I'm thankful I did.
After my first child was born I started working part-time. It's not easy- my day starts at 5:30 every morning so that I can get work done before my kids get up. Then I juggle my kids and work throughout the day so that I can be a good mom and good employee at the same time. I realize a lot of working moms have to juggle much more than I do, so I consider myself lucky.
If I wanted to stop working, my family could find a way to make it work. But I get so much satisfaction from helping people every day on the site. Any time someone tells me that my advice or suggestions helped them make progress, I'm thrilled. So I honestly believe that I've found the career that I'm passionate about, even if I took an interesting path to get there.
What about you? Have you found your passion- whether it's your career, family, volunteering or other activities? If not, what's stopping you?
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Comments
only passion can make happiness--not money. too many people forget this. they forget to follow their heart! - 5/8/2010 11:30:02 AM
Personally I have found my passion but, I am so scared to pursue it. I don't know if I will be ok, and taking in consideration that I have two young boys frightens me a bit more of making a wrong choice. I have been a working mom since I can remember and I'll be honest I don't think I could stop working. But, I realized that I want to dedicate my career life as a home base business woman. I have take the first step I, went to school to and obtained my Cosmetologist licensed. This license has allow me to semi experience what it would be if I were to work from home. I am specializing in Facials, I even invested on a complete spa equipment and placed it on a room in my home. I have been slowly building up my clients and it seems nice. The best part is that when I do my side job (facials at home) I am with my children and I get to do so much more stuff with them. Then Monday comes and I go back to a 8-5 job in an office where, I am not only sitting in front of a computer for pretty much 8 hours out of a day but, I am also gaining weight. My mom tells me I should not hesitate and leave the job I currently posses because she says I would have more time to dedicate to my personal business. I will have more time to take the classes I want to take that will help me with what I want to do and most importantly I will be with my sons. I really want to do so especially since my fiance has completely approved he agrees that I should be a stay home mom but, he leaves it completely up to me. He wants to see me happy therefore, whatever decision I make he wants it to be the one that will make me happy. I am just scared and that is what is holding me back form pursuing my dream... - 4/7/2010 2:29:46 PM
Sam - 4/4/2010 10:38:00 PM
But I will say that I have learned skills such as fire-eating and how to escape from a regulation straight-jacket. When performing escapes I talk about overcoming obstacles and fulfilling dreams and not letting little things like being tied up with 100 feet of rope tied by the two burliest guys in the room get in your way. Thankfully I have never had an unsuccessful escape. A good part of this is due to my positive mindset and having some really wonderful teachers really helps too.
While I have not found a passion in performing I am signed up for a intense scripting class 10 weeks from this Friday. Now I've got to get my biggest problems subdued before then...procrastination and quitting when it gets tough.
Michael - 3/30/2010 9:00:55 PM
I am also a poet--not a famous one, but a committed one. I work on poems most weekdays during my commute to the workplace; I'm involved in a couple of regular peer workshops where we respond to/critique each other's work; & at least once a year I attend a week-long writers' workshop where I can take classes & gain new skills. I've published one book & am seeking a publisher for my second. Quite a few of my poems have been published in magazines & journals too; sending them out for publication is time consuming, but I want to share my words so it's worth it.
I'm very committed to my family--not just my kids but also my sisters, brothers & dad. And I have a deep passion for justice, mostly expressed through advocacy for peace & justice in the country of Colombia, where I grew up.
All of these are rooted in my passion for following Jesus . . . better said, in God's passion for me & for the whole creation. I give myself in love because God loved me first. - 3/30/2010 3:10:01 PM
And thank you, Jen, for caring so much about others that you share with us ideas that help so many of us every day. As I see it, your decision to quit "corporate America" and help so many of us has a far more profound effect, than to help a great company become greater (whatever company that may have been!!)
THANK YOU for your dedication and commitment to SparkPeople!!
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-TODAY- isn't it a GREAT day to Spark??!!
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~~Jocelyn Newton~~ - 3/30/2010 1:05:36 PM
Who'd a thunk it! - 3/30/2010 8:29:04 AM
Since I've retired it keeps me busy createing from scratch, from my drawings to the final creation.
For some reason I have to keep busy with my hands, everything is hand-made or machine made.. I just love what I do, I take pride in my work and love it even more when my work is braised or complimented on or compared over a massed produced item. - 3/30/2010 7:13:40 AM
When searching for your passion I suggest being honest with yourself and not qualifying your dream by saying "what can I do that pays the most, that I can tolerate". - 3/30/2010 6:31:02 AM
Now I'm still looking for a solution to unite work and passion but to know what I want to achieve is a big step itself and it makes me happy! - 3/30/2010 1:24:19 AM
- 3/29/2010 9:00:03 AM
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