A SparkPeople Love Connection--Meet the Newlyweds

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By: , SparkPeople Blogger
12/1/2011 10:00 AM   :  52 comments   :  9,278 Views

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Some may think of SparkPeople as just a healthy living website, but it is so much more! Many members form long-lasting friendships with other members (even in other parts of the world). Recently we found out that there was a couple that met on SparkPeople and got married earlier this year, which I believe may be the second SparkPeople wedding to date. Where else can you find such fun, long-lasting friendships and/or a possible mate who also enjoys living a healthy lifestyle? Only on SparkPeople, of course!

Being someone who also met their spouse on the internet by chance (over 15 years ago), I truly enjoyed the story about how Jan (JANHIM) and Greg (TRAILTRODDER) met (and are now married). I am very excited that they allowed me to interview them for the dailySpark so we can share their beautiful and fun story with all of you too. As you will see, Jan and Greg are definitely Making Their Lives An Adventure together!

 

(A picture of Jan and Greg during a hike on the Ledges Trail in the Cuyahoga National Forest in Ohio.)


Coach Denise: Why did you join SparkPeople?

Jan: I was 60 pounds overweight. I knew that I was risking my health and I was not happy with the vision looking back at me in the mirror. I had already lost 20 pounds using Weight Watcher’s online, but when a friend told me about SparkPeople, I immediately signed on.

Greg: Basically, I joined for the same reason. Having reached a weight of 204 pounds was enough to honestly do something about it. I was trying to be disciplined enough to follow eating and exercise examples set forth in the book Body for Life, by Bill Phillips. I was led to SparkPeople by an ad on another website.


Coach Denise: How did you two meet?

Jan: I received a SparkMail from Greg on February 8, 2011. He read my SparkPage, which described my home in the woods and my love of nature. He expressed a similar interest in nature and environmentalism which are close to my heart. We engaged in SparkMail for a brief time discussing many things that we had in common. Finally, I asked Greg if he would like to call me. We had long phone conversations every night for about a month.

Greg: That’s pretty much it. I had been visiting HIKETOHEIGHTS’ SparkPage and saw Jan pictured in a comment she had left. I might add that she was awfully cute.


Coach Denise: What sparked your interest in each other?

Jan: I have to say that Greg’s warm and genuine charm hooked me. Most of all, he loves to travel, hike and enjoy the outdoors. Very rarely will you find Greg in front of the TV. I love to enjoy the outdoors and nature and felt I had found my kindred spirit.

Greg: Jan always sounded excited when I spoke of my outdoor adventures and wished that she could experience the same. I told her that I plan an excursion every three to four months and I would love to take her places that I know she’d really enjoy. She truly does enjoy a good hike and she showed me that on my visit by taking me on four really nice hikes in the Cuyahoga National Forest. Not only that, but she enjoys my guitar playing and she wants to learn to kayak.


Coach Denise: When and in what part of your health journey did you meet?

Jan: I felt I really was getting to know this man on an intimate level and wanted to explore the relationship further. I was substitute teaching at the time and Spring Break was quickly approaching. I asked Greg if he would like to visit me in Ohio during the break. I don’t think I would have had the nerve or self-esteem to ask Greg to meet me if I was the overweight woman I was a year earlier. I had met my goal weight and maintained it for three months at the time Greg and I began corresponding.

Greg: It was the last week of March. I was really comfortable with the whole situation. Jan and I really got to know each other over the telephone. She’s not kidding when she stated that they were long conversations. Most of them were three to four hours and we really found that there were so many common interests. I had also met my goal weight and was settling in on the proper management of my eating and exercise regimen.


Coach Denise: Will you tell us about the first time you met in person?

Greg: When I arrived at the airport to meet Jan, she was nowhere to be found. I looked everywhere and was beginning to think she had second thoughts and wasn’t going to show up. I thought “great, I came all this way to be stood up." I finally called her and she was waiting for me at baggage claim. She wasn’t allowed to enter the security area where I got off the plane. It didn’t take long after that to find her.  As I was approaching baggage claim, from behind me, I heard someone say, “There’s my guitar man.” I turned around and there she was!  It was a nervous introduction, but our hearts took over our nerves and we hugged for a long time. In fact, we hugged so long I had to retrieve my duffle bag at unclaimed baggage. Jan said it was "just like in the movies!”

Jan: During the first hours of our meeting I felt like a schoolgirl with an abundance of insecurities. Will he like what he sees and will he feel that this was a wasted trip?  Will I feel the same connection to him that I felt over the phone? These were some of the random thoughts that were darting through my mind during these few minutes at the airport. After the ordeal with his baggage, we headed for my car to go to my place. I was nervous and Greg could see it. I was trembling and I couldn’t find my way out of the parking lot.

One of my major apprehensions was revealing my age. Greg had told me his age during one of our phone conversations (which was 57), but thankfully never asked for mine. I thought that my age of 60 might be a deal breaker. I knew that I couldn’t keep this from him indefinitely, but hadn’t planned on telling him right away. Well, it didn’t take long before he finally asked me how old I was. For me this was a painful moment. I was relieved when Greg told me that it didn’t matter and that I didn’t look my age at all...(huge sigh of relief!)

We truly enjoyed our time together and felt like we were meant to be.  It was the hikes we had, the long talks, the intimate dinners and guitar by the fire that brought us closer together. We have so much in common and we knew then that the relationship would only get better -- and it has!!


Coach Denise: When was the wedding?

Jan and Greg: We were married on August 29, 2011 in Eureka Springs, Arkansas. You couldn’t have asked for a better setting.


Coach Denise: Did you have other Spark People at the wedding?

Jan and Greg: Unfortunately, we did not have other Sparkers at the wedding. In fact, we had a sort of elopement. No family or friends - just the two of us. Everything at the bed and breakfast was planned for us, right down to the ceremony!


Coach Denise: What fun, healthy things do you like to do together fitness and eating-wise?

Jan: When Greg flew to Ohio to meet me, I took him to a few of the state parks in the area to hike. The day after I arrived in Kansas, Greg and I hiked the Konza Prairie together. It was 104 degrees that day!! Since then we have camped, hiked various parks in Kansas and Greg is going to teach me to kayak.
 
We grocery shop together and often plan our meals together, incorporating lots of fruits, vegetables, whole grains and very rarely eat red meat. We read labels and try to keep the fat content to a minimum. We try to choose restaurants that have healthy choices on the menu. Just recently, we joined a health club which will help us stay active during the cold winter months.

Greg: Being with Jan is really awesome. It’s much easier to find support when your healthy endeavors are alike. It’s so much easier to manage and maintain when you work together. She always has an open ear for the healthy tidbits I find in an article and we love to share healthy recipes. She’s an amazing, wonderful cook. We do hike with our dogs from time to time and man, do we like to shop!


Coach Denise: Is there anything else you would like to add?

Jan and Greg: We want the SparkPeople community to know how much we appreciated the response that was given to our wedding blogs. We owe all of this attention to one Spark person in particular and she knows who she is. She is a wonderful asset to The SparkPeople site. She knows how to motivate and support her fellow Sparkers and we believe that through her, we met and married. There will always be a Spark in our life. We love you all!

 




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  • 52
    Want everyone to know that Jan and I are doing super and we both are feeling great about ourselves and how we approach our health on a daily basis. We both hope that each and everyone of you are reaching/maintaining goals. Have a nice summer and contact us if you would like to ask us a question or just say hello. - 5/12/2014   4:22:07 AM
  • 51
    Greg here.......Want everyone in the Spark community to know that Jan and I are still much in love and doing well. We have an amazing relationship. We strive to maintain a healthy way of life by eating correctly and being really active in many outdoor activities. We enjoy being with one another and we love making memories. I hope all of you are motivated to reach all of your healthy endeavors. This community is awesomely the best. - 7/24/2013   12:10:29 AM
  • 50
    This couples story is so inspirational and such a great success story. Thank you for sharing the story and God's speed to this couple with great success in their hike together in life! - 3/2/2013   8:05:50 AM
  • AGRENANCO
    49
    What a great story! I got a little choked up reading that you hugged so long your baggage went to the unclaimed department! :) Best to you both. - 2/24/2012   12:36:00 PM
  • 48
    Ohhhh, I've got goosebumps! My divorce was recently finalized, and I love hearing stories about people who have come together through shared interests!

    May you two continue to grow together!!!
    :D
    Jocelyn - 1/14/2012   12:55:07 PM
  • 47
    such a love-filled story! i see the spark you two have - Congratulations! :) - 1/13/2012   4:52:52 PM
  • 46
    congrats a nice story keep up the good work on staying active and healthy - 1/13/2012   12:50:16 AM
  • 45
    Awesome story! So happy for both of you. - 12/12/2011   2:17:23 AM
  • 44
    Congratulations you two! It's a beautiful story.Hope you have many happy years together. - 12/7/2011   12:45:05 AM
  • 43
    Lovely, lovely story! We hear of so much sorrow and sadness in today's world, it is very special to read of this unique couple. Wishing you many, many, happy, healthy years together!!! - 12/6/2011   9:19:06 PM
  • 42
    Congratulations to the both of you...what a wonderful story. Wishing you the best. - 12/6/2011   12:17:34 PM
  • 41
    Congratulations and best wishes on a long, healthy future together! - 12/5/2011   6:02:23 AM
  • 40
    I love it. You make a lovely couple. My prince charming hasn't got here yet.
    - 12/4/2011   6:59:13 PM
  • GMAGEE
    39
    What a lovely story! Congrats to you both and best wishes for a happy life together.

    Haven't bonded or 'friended' any SparkPeople members, but tomorrow's another day! - 12/4/2011   3:14:47 PM
  • SOARINGPHOENIX
    38
    The persons I have grown close to are fitnutmama and frdsheart - 12/3/2011   10:14:45 PM
  • 37
    AWESOME !!! Congrats!!! - 12/3/2011   10:00:19 AM
  • 36
    How wonderful for both of you! I am so happy for you and wish you many happy healthy years together! Cherish your story, it is really a dream come true!
    - 12/2/2011   9:24:26 PM
  • 35
    This give me hope, that I might not have to be alone the rest of my life! I love sparkpeople and the sparkpeople I have personally met! I have a few dear friendships although far apart, there are no more supportive, understanding people than sparkpeople. Congratulations to the two of you! God Bless you both with Many, Happy, Healthy years together! - 12/2/2011   7:37:53 PM
  • 34
    AWWWWWWWWWWW...that's all I can say...your story touched my heart since I've made some close friends online. Congrats!!! - 12/2/2011   1:15:45 PM
  • 33
    What a great story. Congratulations! - 12/2/2011   12:33:07 PM
  • 32
    Love this story!!!!! Congratulations!!!! - 12/2/2011   11:38:14 AM
  • 31
    How beautiful! Thanks for sharing your beautiful romance. It give some of us hope. - 12/2/2011   11:36:02 AM
  • 30
    What a beautiful story! And Jan - you don't look a day over 40!! - 12/2/2011   11:09:31 AM
  • 29
    i absolutely LOVED this story. - 12/2/2011   10:48:44 AM
  • 28
    Thanks for the story. It sounds so much like my husband and I who also met online about 19 years ago. We also started talking online, then went to very, very long phone calls. Then he sent me a picture of himself shortly before we were to meet in person for the first time. I swear he sent me the worst picture of himself. What shocked me was I cried wondering how in the world could I look at this man for the rest of my life. Then I realized that I had somehow fallen in love with someone I had never met. Meeting him was nerve wracking and relieving as he looked so much better than his picture and we have now been married just over 15 years. Still going strong. :) - 12/2/2011   10:00:15 AM
  • 27
    I have met some wonderful and encouraging friends on all my teams, but one team in particular has provided a closeness I didn't expect (Pastor's Wives) - and I was surprised to find such a team existed. I was also able to meet a friend locally through a local team, and we shared morning walks for a while. So, I guess I'm not surprised at this - those we meet here have a common foundation, setting and achieving goals! Congrats! - 12/2/2011   7:03:07 AM
  • 26
    How wonderful!! Congratulations to them! But I think there is a misprint in this article, because there is no way Jan is 60 years old. :) - 12/1/2011   6:31:08 PM
  • JULIA1154
    25
    Thank you for sharing your story. On a cold, December day it's delightful to imagine your hikes and adventures.

    Best wishes for many years of health and happiness together. - 12/1/2011   6:10:27 PM
  • 24
    Great story--congratulations! I'm the leader of a very small team (there's only three active members!) but we've been together for over five years and I know the others feel the way I do--they are very important to me and to my continued health and fitness journey. We're friends who've never met, except through our message board. But we can tell each other things that we sometimes wouldn't 'bore' our regular friends or family with--our healthy lifestyle changes, our workout challenges and successes, and our diet-talk. Having people to connect with about such topics (and who understand!) is invaluable! - 12/1/2011   3:06:15 PM
  • 23
    Thank you so much for sharing your love story with us.It is so heart warming reading about a couple finding each other on Spark People.I am your age and want to continue to be an active grandmother.Hubby and I have been married 38 years.Want to wish you many many happy active years together! - 12/1/2011   2:18:41 PM
  • 22
    Congrats to you both on your new begining together, fate shapes things in amazing ways. Thanks for sharing your touching love story. May you enjoy much happiness, peace and blessings. - 12/1/2011   2:06:03 PM
  • 21
    It´ s wonderful to find a true soul-mate. Congratulations! I met and frequently communicate with a friend I met through Spark. It´s a truly great place.
    - 12/1/2011   1:21:35 PM
  • 20
    Congratulations! What a great story! - 12/1/2011   1:21:24 PM
  • 19
    Congrats to you Both,you are wonderful together. - 12/1/2011   1:18:57 PM
  • 18
    AWESOME ... congrats to the newlyweds!

    - 12/1/2011   1:15:31 PM
  • 17
    Congratulations!!! - 12/1/2011   1:05:10 PM
  • 16
    Soo sweet :)) Congrats you two - 12/1/2011   12:44:55 PM
  • 15
    What a lovely story! Congratulations! - 12/1/2011   12:35:31 PM
  • 14
    How beautiful & inspirational!! I absolutely loved reading this. I was in a particularly bad funk this morning, & this just gave me rejuvenation & hope to continue on with my own personal goals in life. Thanks for sharing such a touching story. I wish you both the best of luck in life. May you have a long, fulfilled, loving life together. :) - 12/1/2011   12:32:56 PM
  • 7WORSHIPS
    13
    Congratulations! Jan, you would have a difficult time convincing anyone you are 60. You look fantastic! - 12/1/2011   12:24:34 PM
  • DINGDONG55
    12
    Beautiful couple! Beautiful Story! Happy ending! - 12/1/2011   12:23:23 PM
  • 11
    How wonderful for both of you! Congratulations! - 12/1/2011   12:14:37 PM
  • 10
    Adorable!! And Jan, you do not look your age at all! Would guess 10 years younger;-) - 12/1/2011   12:14:11 PM
  • 9
    You guys are the best! I wish you all the happiness in the world. Next time we need a shot of McGee, Keystone and the new Addition to the family!

    XOXO HIKETOHEIGHTS - 12/1/2011   11:52:01 AM
  • 8
    Congrats, you two! How wonderful to share health & environmental goals! - 12/1/2011   11:26:34 AM
  • 7
    what a beautiful story congratulations guys! - 12/1/2011   11:10:35 AM
  • 6
    This absolutely touches my heart. My husband and I married three months after our first date and we are going strong 12 years later! I am so happy for you! - 12/1/2011   11:00:44 AM
  • 5
    this is the cutest story ever! congrats! - 12/1/2011   10:58:46 AM
  • 4
    I have some really close friends on SP, one I have met and hiked with and others have chatted on the phone, I am so happy for this couple, what a joy to find love here, BIG CONGRATS!!! - 12/1/2011   10:49:14 AM
  • 3
    Congratulations! What a wonderful story! - 12/1/2011   10:23:23 AM

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