Ouch! the truth hurts! But it is nothing I don't know... but sure did need the reminder! Thanks! - 11/14/2011   12:04:47 PM

I went on a diet once - the Atkins diet. That was more than 30 years ago. Since then I just slim from time to time. That's what I call it. I tell people I am "slimming". What I mean is that I am watching what I eat and portion sizes. It is a kinder word, and doesn't have the same all or nothing connotations. - 11/10/2011   10:43:37 PM

Great article! I love the fact that someone actually had the nerve to say that it is as simple as calories in vs calories used! Any more, people want to argue this point!
Also, you mentioned slip ups, even Tony Horton of PX90 fame mentioned that he is good 90% of the time, but gives himself a 10% to eat something that isn't necessarily healthful! I have learned that that is a good formula, except, having been a life long "dieter" ( I kid you not, I remember being under 10 years old & worring about my weight), I have learned that it is best NOT to give yourself a "day off" within the 1st month! If you do, it will be harder to get back on track. It takes 21 days to gain or break a habit! After eating healthfully continuously for 30 days, you & your body will not only get used to eatting that way, you might even find that you crave it! The same with exercize, plus with exercize, it takes appx 3 weeks to your body to respond, after that, because your muscles have become more developed, your metabolism will speed up, burning more "at rest" calories. - 11/10/2011   1:18:10 PM

life style chang for me! - 11/10/2011   11:39:08 AM

Good list, if a bit simplistic.

"Diet" maybe about calories, but "healthy lifestyle" is about the nutritional value of those calories.

That's why I use the word "diet" in its original, accurate sense: a diet is what a person eats. "Diet" as a verb gets people into trouble. - 11/10/2011   9:17:35 AM

Good list, if a bit simplistic.

"Diet" maybe about calories, but "healthy lifestyle" is about the nutritional value of those calories.

That's why I use the word "diet" in its original, accurate sense: a diet is what a person eats. "Diet" as a verb gets people into trouble. - 11/10/2011   9:17:34 AM

I have learned that learning is part of the process. The process is the journey and the journey does not come to an end. I've learned to enjoy the never ending journey and apply the things I've learned along the way. - 11/10/2011   9:11:37 AM

Thank you for writing this short simple list! - 11/10/2011   8:42:56 AM

my whole life changed when i stopped dieting and took on a lifestyle change. wording means so much and can give you the mental edge you really need to get the job done. since jan of 2010 i have made changes, one at a time and stuck with them... dropping soda for water was the first and i have not had soda (diet or otherwise) since the day i started my lifestyle change. making sure i have 7 plus servings of fruits and veggies a day is another lifer for me, after making sure i have my fruits and veggies planned into my day there is not much room for in there for unhealthy foods and you will find that after a while, you CRAVE the fruits and veggies and just can't get enough of those. i thought i would never be satisfied without my chips and salt (i never use salt now by the way, don't need to, do not even keep it in the house) boy was i wrong!

you do not need to do anything drastic, but everything in moderation.

after gaining courage through spark people to hit the gym (thank you kim) it was no looking back from there. exercising IS ADDICTING!! i was 350lbs and waddled into the gym, embarrased all i could do was a minute or two on a treadmill and leave. could not even last 1 min on an elliptical, but i kept going back because i was creating a new lifestyle for myself. now i hit the gym 3-5 times a week, can go an hour on elliptical and nothing is off limits for me. i feel so good going to the gym i can't even explain it and i feel crappy if i miss a few days, it has become my lifestyle!!! but i did start out just walking on a treadmill and increasing time by a minute a day.... (and streangth training after a while too) but it can be done.

back in dec of 2010 i did not realize the difference the wording from diet to lifestyle change would make. my goals board that i used for visuals reminded me daily of the LIFESTYLE changes. just making the wording stick helps your mind (and body) make necessary adjustments to make sure the steps you take are permanent and not just (during your diet). there is NO falling back!

good luck to all!!

hugs to all

kat - 11/10/2011   7:35:18 AM

This really gives me hope because I fall down a lot. It's good to know that I can pull myself up again and keep on going. Great article. Thanks so much. - 11/10/2011   6:58:47 AM

G-R-E-A-T article! - 11/10/2011   3:27:18 AM

I don't diet, and never have. I do however moderate my food plan and my exercise...some times are better than others as I still reactive eat and stop exercising when stressed. - 11/10/2011   2:59:48 AM

It is very good advice to follow and do. Will have to try somethings from the article. God Bless You and have a Wonderful Week. - 11/9/2011   9:38:41 PM

Be in it for the long haul (lifestyle change). - 11/9/2011   9:38:30 PM

I love the part about picking yourself back up after you fall. I fall down more than I'd like to admit and its nice to know its ok to not be mad at myself for it. - 11/9/2011   9:34:22 PM

I agree with all of the article... for me it boils down to a balance of all of these points. SP is helping me change my lifestyle, teaching me to exercise correctly AND have fun doing it(if it ain't fun it won't get done!), showing me you can have good nutrition and still eat good food, and best of all, SP is providing all the tools I need to become healthy and stay that way... in a wonderful, easy to navigate site which keeps me motivated through the mundane daily-ness of life!
I can live this life, enjoying the journey... how long doesn't matter. I AM WORTH IT...Who I am becoming IS worth it, too! ;) - 11/9/2011   7:46:28 PM

Such excellent advice! Thank you - 11/9/2011   5:54:37 PM

Let me see: 1) yes 2) yes 3) yes 4) yes.

Those are all things I have learned on SparkPeople. 1) It can't be a diet, it has to be a lifestyle change or it won't last. 2) Watching what I eat alone won't cut it for the long haul; I have to move more, too. 3) While there is a lot of debate about the 'right' and 'wrong' foods to eat, in the end you have to eat fewer calories than you burn without eating too little. 4) Perfection is impossible; recognizing that there are going to be slips and figuring out how to deal with them is part of #1--making it a lifestyle, not a diet. Thanks to SparkPeople, I've lost nearly 100 pounds and become an active person, going from complete couch potato to half marathoner. - 11/9/2011   4:03:07 PM

I need to be more forceful with my hubby to stop purchasing my trigger foods....he picks me up from work with a huge bag of smartfood white cheddar popcorn and it is open. I have asked him to NOT do this and he still does. I need to get myself more under control and not eat any. I try not to...but i still do. Small portions ...but i want to only indulge in a treat once a week --- not almost every night....Help.... - 11/9/2011   2:07:49 PM

Thanks so much for the ... um, FEEDback! I totally agree with the fact that "diet does not mean deprivation!" Keep on writing... and keep on living healthy, gang at SparkPeople! - 11/9/2011   1:50:24 PM

It is true IN GENERAL that it doesn't matter what kind of diet you go on as long as you maintain. HOWEVER if you are insulin non-sensative then lower carb is the better way to go. See Stanford University AtoZ diet study "Battle of the Diets, is anyone winning at losing?" - 11/9/2011   12:58:09 PM

It is true IN GENERAL that it doesn't matter what kind of diet you go on as long as you maintain. HOWEVER if you are insulin non-sensative then lower carb is the better way to go. See Stanford University AtoZ diet study "Battle of the Diets, is anyone winning at losing?" - 11/9/2011   12:58:08 PM

nice! - 11/9/2011   12:55:52 PM

I agree, but I would change #3. We need to a minimum amount of calories each day for our body to work. If we do not, our body turns to starvation and pulling what it needs from our muscles and bones. We don't lose weight. If you are only eating vegetables and fruits, you may not be consuming enough calories for your body to function properly. The best thing that I have found is to use a food tracker/journal. It works with all meal plans and keeps you on track. - 11/9/2011   12:07:04 PM

It's never too late to start again. I've been idle for about 5 months for the most part. Gaining 4 pounds scared me. I refuse to go back to where I was and sp keeps me on track. The biggest lesson I've learned is to use the tools that are avaliable to me. The first one I turned to when I realized the road I was headed down was sp and I'm so glad I did. - 11/9/2011   11:52:23 AM

I agree with all of these points, especially #2 - I was a really reluctant exerciser for a long time, struggling with a sluggish motivation and my natural tendency to be a couch potato. But I didn't really start achieving small health victories - including looser-fitting clothes, more energy, less gnawing in my stomach, pounds and inches lost, etc. - until I started exercising consistency. It really is the part of the equation that made a huge difference for me. And now I actually look forward to going for a run or heading to the gym (well, most days, anyway...)!

Another tip I would add to #3 - don't go overboard on reducing your calories. Make sure you are eating at least the minimum number of calories in your recommended SP range. While I was upping my fitness level, I wasn't making changes to my calorie intake, and found myself feeling really worn out after workouts, and pretty hungry by the end of the day. Plus, I hit a plateau on the scale. After I updated my fitness goals on SP to reflect what I was actually burning each week (way more than SP estimated for me), it automatically increased my calorie intake by 300. This made all the difference - I finally had enough fuel for my workouts and didn't feel sluggish afterward, and I broke through my plateau. SP really know their stuff! - 11/9/2011   11:31:56 AM

I agree completely with #3. It really is all about the calories in and calories out, and if you have a deficit, pounds will be lost. And I believe you should treat yourself occasionally, if your calories for the day will allow it. Because as soon as you deny yourself a food, that is the food you will find yourself craving, and let's face it, we will all eventually give into at least some of our cravings.

But the point I like best is #4. It's what keeps me going everyday in this struggle I call maintenance. I always remember, "I'm in this for the long haul," and "I can't ever quit." BUT....sometimes I will slip. I have a bad day or even two or three in a row. But I start over, and keep trying and NEVER EVER GIVE UP! Because with this weight loss, I have gotten my life back, and I don't intend to ever give THAT up! - 11/9/2011   11:18:56 AM

Sensible advice.

As far as #3, I've found I'm sensitive to sugar and starches - they cause cravings which lead to binges. So I eat a pretty high protein set of foods. Not because I'm slavishly devoted to the religion of Low Carb, but because through trial and error I've figured out what seems to work well FOR ME. - 11/9/2011   10:59:33 AM

#1 thing that I've learned:
Diet does not mean deprivation!
It's about being conscious of what you're taking in and using proper portion sizes. You can still have those jelly beans! ... just not the whole bag... :)

If I deny myself something all together all it does is make me focus on it 24/7 until I crack and end up with my head buried in a bag of Oreos! - 11/9/2011   10:45:07 AM

That's a pretty good list. The only one I would modify a bit is #3. While true, you need to burn more than use take in, doing this by simply dropping calories is a losing proposition. In fact, it's about the same a exercising while eating poorly. You need to eat less than you burn of the right kinds of food. If you are not satisfied, you will eat more. Fighting that hunger all the time will simply lead to giving up. - 11/9/2011   10:12:07 AM