4 Good Reasons You Should Pair Up to Work Out
According to a recent dailySpark poll, 75% of you do not work out with a buddy. I'm more of a solo exerciser myself, but sometimes—especially when I need a little entertainment or motivation—I like working out with a friend. I don't strongly take one side or the other on this issue. I think different things work for different people. But some new research is showing that pairing up to work out might have more benefits than you realized…
In 2007, a small University of Virginia study of 34 students yielded some interesting results about friends and physical challenges. Participants stood at the base of a hill wearing a weighted backpack. Some of them were all alone. Others were paired up with a friend. Researchers then asked them to estimate how steep the hill in front of them really was. The students who stood with a friend estimated that the hill was less steep than students who stood alone did. And the longer the friends had known each other, the less steep the hill appeared to them.
We could easily apply these findings to a wide range of workouts. Simply being with a friend can make the physical challenge of exercise seem less daunting to you—especially if you're doing it with one of your best friends. This actually makes me think back to my Grand Canyon hiking trip last year. Surprisingly, I never viewed the multi-day excursion (also with weighted packs!) as very challenging, despite the grand scale of the trails we climbed. Could that be because I took the journey with my very best friend of almost 7 years?
Besides making exercise seem easier, here are three more reasons to try working out with a buddy—at least occasionally.
Do you think that exercising with a friend can make your workouts seem easier—or more fun?

In 2007, a small University of Virginia study of 34 students yielded some interesting results about friends and physical challenges. Participants stood at the base of a hill wearing a weighted backpack. Some of them were all alone. Others were paired up with a friend. Researchers then asked them to estimate how steep the hill in front of them really was. The students who stood with a friend estimated that the hill was less steep than students who stood alone did. And the longer the friends had known each other, the less steep the hill appeared to them.
We could easily apply these findings to a wide range of workouts. Simply being with a friend can make the physical challenge of exercise seem less daunting to you—especially if you're doing it with one of your best friends. This actually makes me think back to my Grand Canyon hiking trip last year. Surprisingly, I never viewed the multi-day excursion (also with weighted packs!) as very challenging, despite the grand scale of the trails we climbed. Could that be because I took the journey with my very best friend of almost 7 years?
Besides making exercise seem easier, here are three more reasons to try working out with a buddy—at least occasionally.
- Working out with a buddy makes exercise more fun. As long as you're a somewhat social person, I think this is true. Whether it brings out an inner competitiveness that helps you work harder and pass the time, or helps you maintain a lighthearted attitude about Zumba class (at least you two will feel like fools together), exercising with a friend can help freshen up your routine when you're feeling bored.
- Working out with a buddy lets you multitask. My aforementioned best friend and I both exercise regularly, although usually not together. Often, when we're craving friend time and need to catch up, we do so by working out together: running, walking or hiking. We also tend to do this when one of us needs to vent, so talk about multitasking: spending time with friends, getting things off your chest, reducing stress (via that connection and the exercise), and meeting our fitness goals. That sounds like a win-win-win-win to me! Bonus: Being able to carry on a choppy conversation is a good indicator that you're working at the right intensity level!
- Working out with a buddy provides accountability. While I don't think it's wise to always rely on someone else to stay motivated yourself, it can work in a pinch. I tend to be motivated to work out most days. But when I'm not, I'll call up a friend. Then my workout is more like an appointment that I have to keep because I don't want to cancel or let the other person down. This is a great technique to try on occasion, but I also think it's important to make a habit of finding ways to stay motivated on your own—without always needing to rely on someone else.
Do you think that exercising with a friend can make your workouts seem easier—or more fun?

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The one time I went to the gym with friends, I didn't notice any real difference as we didn't really interact at the gym--in fact the pacing of our workouts didn't really mesh very well as some of us were done way earlier than others. But I do try, when I can, to have social activities--things like sledding or biking or playing tennis or whatever with friends. It keeps physical activity fun, not just something I *have* to do. - 3/4/2011 3:40:24 AM
husband walks to slow so I would rather walk alone with my dog. - 2/27/2011 3:13:09 PM
- 2/26/2011 7:46:59 PM
There are three main reasons I'd prefer to go it alone:
1. I sweat a lot. It's not pretty. Why would I want to share that?
2. The other person always wants to talk. I can't exercise and talk at the same time. I also can't walk and chew gum at the same time; it's a coordination problem.
3. Who exercises at the same pace? I want to get the most out of my session, and I certainly don't want to slow anyone else down.
The only time I can recall wanting someone to work out with is at the gym when a svelt 20 year old in a svelt Nike sports bra decided to occupy the treadmill directly in front of me (and between two equally svelt 20 year old guys.) At least then I would have had someone to roll my eyes with. - 2/26/2011 4:07:39 PM
Definitely need an alternative solo exercise plan! - 2/26/2011 12:55:40 PM
And unless I don't know how to count, Nicole, you either need to change the headline of the article or add a fourth reason.
Thanks as always for the excellent information and all you do! It's called "real good karma" to be able to earn a living doing what you love AND helping others!!!
Maha - 2/26/2011 12:09:59 PM
So having a sparkbuddy in my own home is twice the fun. - 2/25/2011 2:02:30 PM
I walk farther and hike longer when I'm with my sister. But, when the weather isn't good, or she's not available, I exercise alone with a DVD, or take a walk with my iPod. Except for walking or hiking, I prefer to exercise alone.
I thank God for my hiking buddy! - 2/25/2011 7:25:04 AM
You would have to have a certain time to do something without wavering by 5 or 10 minutes. - 2/25/2011 6:57:27 AM
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